Why cant attractive girls get dates?

Just wondering..... i cant figure it out at all.....anyone got any ideas . and i dont mean sex cuz getting that is easy but all the other stuff

 

maybe its a personality thing...im not saying u have a bad personality


maybe guys are intimidated

 

maybe guys are intimidated... afraid of rejection?... i know some guys who tend to shoot a little lower than asking hot girls out....


who knows? i don't, a guy could probably answer this better than I could

 

i have no idea.... for some guys it is personality but there are so many factors that go into it these days, youd be better to ask a guy

 

look for the other stuff, instead of just sex, you'd be surprised what you might find.

 

um this whole post is about stuff other then sex....

 

maybe it's because you don't respond to our pm's!!

lol, nah, actually when u sent me that pm, i knew it was directed towards the other poster, i just wanted to see what you'd say to fix the case of mistaken identiy...but you didnt say anything! lol...(it's okay though, i prolly would have done the same if i was in your shoes)

 

because the people you sex aren't the kind of people you date... seems kind of straight forward to me. Maybe start 'dating' different guys, as in, guys with more than just the sex appeal...

 

I think guys seem to think that attractive girls will be cruel or bithcy to them, the media always portrays attractive women in that light

 

a beautiful girl can have any guy she chooses. and thus we're afraid of cheating and such.

 

damn right..

 

When I notice that all the guys are clamoring over one chick, I completely turn the other way. I don't want to be one of those guys that drools over some chick just cuz she's hot.

 

if thats your stomache in the pic, i would ask you out in a fucking heartbeat.

 

For those of u who keep posting this is a sex issue its not.... if all i wanted was sex then i could have it. but i dont . im a flirt yes but not slutty.... and it dont think its fair that cuz i look a ceritin way that guys over look even trying to get to know me and its starting to bother me.it just bothers me cuz i have dated guys that were like smokein hot and then guys that wernt....its not about the look its a bout the person. maybe i should switch to girls..

 

9/10 times hot girls are stuck up, extremely conceded, and have no respect for anyone else. That annoys me, and, hot girls know they got it, and when they know they got it it is a very dangerous thing. Fuck around alot I would have to say...

 

ya but im not liek that. how is that my fault if someone else is?

 

well the question was a generalized question, so you have to expect the response to be generalized as well. it may be true that your not like that, but untill someone gets to know you, they'll assume you fit the generalization. sad but true...perhaps you should initiate things more, which would throw the generalizations out the window.

 

Thats the problem! guys dont want to get to know me they want to sleep with me....thats the part thats shitty how do i make it not a generalized question? and now whos now answering there pms?

 

hey hey hey, you just sent me that pm/i just got on...it's not like i've had all day to formulate a response

and you can't really ungeneralize the question because people don't really know you/the situatio intimately so the thread wouldnt be all that discussable...kinda a double edged sword.

at any rate there are two more things i can add. 1. perhaps then that your not approaching the right kind of guys, or 2. maybe they want sex but thats not all they want.

it can't be that every guy in alberta is a hound dog....oooo...and if your approaching these guys in bars...chances are al they'll want is sex, which is percisely why i don't do the 'bar scene'.

 

i think it is every guy in alberta....lol acutally its funny i seem to date ontario guys that have moved to alberta... maybe its an ontario problem and i dotn do the bar sceen either...least not to look for a boy to bring home to mom