I'm a male, when I masturbate the only way I can come to orgasam is if I lay in my bed and hump my bedsheets, like grind my bed. It makes me cum hard. Now if I sit and try to stroke it, it doesnt work no matter how long I try... I get stiff as hell just can't cum. Unless I hump away then right when im about to cum I stroke it, I cum then. Anyone else have this problem?
I don't have this "problem" if that's what you want to call it. It's not really a problem. Don't you ever listen to Loveline with Dr. Drew? Everybody's brains are wired differently. Different people are aroused by different things.
Well I tried this new way and I like it more... I lay on my belly flat but this time I cup my hand around my penis like a fist and hump into my hand sorta like a vagina and its more enjoyable!
Not a problem at all actually, but yes, I can only cum that way too. To be honest, I thought I was the only one that maturbated by humping the bed. My attitude is that if it ain't broke, don't fix it. Besides, like you say, the orgasms are so amazing.
When I was in my teens, I used to masturbate by taking some of the thin plastic which come from the drycleaners and putting it between two pillows piled on top of each other, and then i would insert my erect penis into the plastic between the pillows and hump away until I came. Not as good as making love to a woman, but any port in a storm. Also, check out AdvancedMasturbation.com for 40+ demonstrated masturbation techniques.
I also can only cum while humping the bed, couch, or the floor. While I'm sure TMS is real, I get hard easily wnough, and have great sex with wife. But I still love to hump the bed, couch, or the floor.
Interesting. I started by humping my bed too and I started experimenting and exploring different methods. Other methods: -Can’t remember how I thought of it, I would have my penis out of my underwear, pointing sideways in my pants, I pulled the fabric as tight as I could against my penis and hump the fabric. I then hurried to take it out to ejaculate, I didn’t stroke it yet. Sometimes I was not quick enough to take it out so I squeezed the head to contain my ejaculation, impressed at the strong pulsating. Then I would undo my pants, reach to squeeze the head until I had it out to let it shoot. -Getting myself excited with images of women in swimsuits, bikinis and bras, I wrapped my penis in plastic film and humped either the corner of the bed, couch, or, the pillow or a cushion. I could have used the Saran Wrap with the first method and keep humping through the orgasms. -Once I left home in the army, those methods were not discreet living with other guys in the barracks. I discovered the reverse grip, stimulating the head very slowly to avoid making noise with the large amount of precum. Then when I ejaculated I stopped working the head. Once in my own room alone I finally was able to let the precum be noisy and keep working the head until my orgasm was done with. -Only years later I also stroked the shaft, doing what worked better. -And not surprisingly I also tried hard to give myself oral. I achieved reaching it a handful of times and I made myself orgasm 3 times. It was too much work and work up to be able to reach, putting strain on my back. If it was a couple of inches longer I know I would still give myself oral. A man giving me? No! Giving a man oral! No! To myself? YES!
Big jump. Went from 2007 to 2022. Reading my posts from then. No longer accurate. About four or five years ago I went from hunting the bed face down to the traditional grip the shaft of my dick and stroking. It was hard to transition after doing it the face down way for so long, but I managed. The reason I changed up was because I wanted to have the option of pulling out my dick and wanking anywhere I’m able. Another reason was that I found it more tiring. Finally, I was wearing holes into my mattress by rubbing so much and so hard. Lol
Started out humping the sheets but seem to be able to masturbate on my back, standing, or sitting most any position works fine if I get horny just take it in my hand and go for a good climax.
