Why are people so infatuated with falling in love or having intercourse? I found these forums by accident and realized how many people there are that just make the whole thing far too complicated. Just flow with the go. I find I am a man that can not be controlled by sex, although I do like it, yet it is not strong enough for me to want to constantly be in a relationship the drama is not worth it. I use to not have much confidence , didn't quite think I was an attractive man or anything. At this point though I don't even care I could post a picture of myself on here right now and not be phased in the least by what people thought of me... So why do others? Input , feedback.. whats wrong with you all..?
Did I say what is wrong with people? People are obviously all different it's all perspective, nothing is wrong with anyone really it's simply a question. You make it seem like I said there was something wrong with these people who just want love and sex etc and so on. I did not say that. I simply asked what causes this why do people feel the need to be in a relationship. Why do they feel the need to have someone with them the entire time? I don't need that. You bring up another question though, how is it that people can read something (such as a bible) and completely turn it into something else other then what it is saying.... But uhh... Yea good input there Sophie, you seem like a very educated young lady. To take what I said, not understand it(obviously) and make it out to be something else. I like the way you almost made me look like an ass there, nice . lol It's easier to misinterpret a question or statement and make it seem bad then to understand it and answer it.
Is that right? So I am a fisherman. You read into me so perfectly my friend. Totally caught me. You are not worthy for the likes of the Evil Dead Avatar. I kid. but sure, lets turn this in to a topic of why I am fishing for compliments then. What do I see wrong with myself that I need so badly to have people over the internet, of whom I have never met, to compliment me? What causes my brain to function this way? Similar to the ways of people thriving for sex and relationships and to never be alone? Also , Fleshmound, didn't you make a topic about people who come in these forums post topics and get only idiotic responses. You were critiquing people for that . EVERY BODY LOVE EVERY BODY! haha.
I'm going to nickname you little Ms.Interpretation lol..... Did I say I didn't like it here? I am talking to several different people currently and quite enjoy it.
I was never overly obsessed either. I never had a boyfriend. When I got one though, it was perfect. And it still is.
I think perhaps because society in general is obsessed with it and blatantly advertises it on a regular basis, causing everyone in society to become obsessed with it as well. I'm celibate and have no interest of having sex until I meet someone worth while.
I have recently stopped having sex after my last relationship... to much drama for little payback. I agree with you Mizanthrope, I think because relationships are spoken of so much people think they need it or think that is whats normal (which its not not normal). If you listen to the radio most of all the music will be about break up's, meeting someone, or sex.
Whats said publically is usually a load of crap when it comes to love and sex with just about every person. Guys saying that they'd really just prefer a blow job or to jerk off to fucking is not something you'd ever really hear them say. Girls saying things like "well I'd like fucking more if there were more guys any good at it" or "well, I have an easier time getting there by setting the spin cycle on the washing machine" are things they dont say aloud often As for relationships, marriage, commitment, monogamy, they are just as much about fear and jealousy, latching on to the hottest partner one can find, the hope of regular sex as they are true love and "soulmates"
i dont see whats wrong with sex? its intimate, and oh yeah it feels fucking amazing..so i shall continue to do it, i dont go pick up protitutes but i do pick up girls for sex, you dont have to be in a relationship, i digg casual sex.
