why are guys so nice to bitchy girls?

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Autentique, Oct 21, 2007.

  1. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    I've always wondered this throughout my entire life, why do guys go out of their way for girls who are mean, highly demanding and just plain bitchy.
    I just thought of this from seeing my roommate's boyfriend and all the things he does for her and how she treats him. It kinda reminded me of highschool. I've never been able to understand that.
     
  2. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    Because the guy thinks he'll get some... the possibility of sex is a powerful tool that makes some guys put up with major bullshit. Is your roommate good looking? If so, the boyfriend thinks that she's worth the aggravation even if he doesn't rate any higher than a wardrobe accessory to her.
     
  3. -moonshine-memi-

    -moonshine-memi- Member

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    i too have wondered this.
     
  4. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    Not particularly. I guess I find her uglier because of how ugly her personality is.
     
  5. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    I do agree that character far outshines looks.

    Really it's up to the guy to draw the line. Perhaps he thinks she is his only chance at a relationship.
     
  6. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    If I would compare my roommate to her boyfriend based on looks, I would say they are about equal, and he's a great person.
    I mean he comes helps us move, comes another day, builds our furniture, goes and help her with her events at the college, brings her flowers, just bought her this really nice coat. I just feel sad for the guy, he's so nice and he really cares for her and I KNOW her and I know she doesnt, she's actually still talking to her ex boyfriend who happens to be a good friend of mine too (who is again a really nice guy who puts up with all of her crazy shit) and I dont understand it.
    Do guys like it when girls go crazy, become completely unreasonable and are never satisfied?
     
  7. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    I just thought of them as an example, but this is something I've seen so much. It's kinda crazy.
     
  8. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    I don't. It's one reason I'm still single.
     
  9. cuddles

    cuddles Member

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    Maybe he has self-esteem issues... other than that, maybe guys like that are just idiots.

    If I start acting crazy and bitchy I definitely don't expect my boyfriend to put up with it.
     
  10. Autentique

    Autentique wonderfabulastic

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    we are not all like that :)
     
  11. stinkfoot

    stinkfoot truth

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    I know but I've grown rather stuck in my ways.
     
  12. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    Because most guys are complete idiots.

    Don't worry about it though, most girls are complete idiots too.
     
  13. cuddles

    cuddles Member

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    So true. Suffice it to say that most humans are idiots.
     
  14. BraveSirRubin

    BraveSirRubin Members

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    Right you are,

    Cuddles :D
     
  15. Detox

    Detox Member

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    Its because those are the kind of girls that after having sex with them with them they will punch you in the face

    which from what i hear can be quite the turn on
     
  16. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    yep

    honestly? most of them rate as accessories for one another as someone mentioned earlier. they look pretty on the others arm, and put up with that shit to be with someone they find physically attractive
     
  17. salmon4me

    salmon4me Senior Member

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    Women are allowed to be crazy as long as they are equally hot. Apply's to bitch's too.
     
  18. themnax

    themnax Senior Member

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    same reason good looking girls suck up to ass hole guys. diversity is the nature of reality and there's no accounting for human taste or gullibility.

    there's no ONE reason in either case. i think a culture that romantacizes and rewards aggressiveness has something to do with it though. along with screwing up a lot of other things at the same time.

    =^^=
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  19. bird_migration

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    I prefer sweet girls relationshipwise, but bitches are better in bed.
     
  20. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    it's true. i like being a bitch in bed and nice the rest of the time. it's a better focus of my personal energy. you can cook a decent meal or iron a shirt right if you're feeling bitchy. you can, however, have a fantastic time in bed.
     
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