Hiya! So slowly but surely I've been becoming more sexually attracted to guys(I'm bi). I'm at the point where I could almost be comfortable having sex with a guy and doing all the good stuff, except blowing him. I've never been one to take this thought lightly and I was at a point where I said I never was going to do it because I found it disgusting (yet I would eat a girl out with no problem). And I'm not even really sure why I'm so scared of it. Maybe I have this misconception that all guys (which I know isn't true) are gross? I don't know what it is. But I just know if a guy I liked asked for sex, sure, but I wouldn't blow him.
I don't think all guys are gross. I wouldn't have so many guy friends and I could have sex with a guy, I just wouldn't blow him
You need to clarify your thoughts. Try being specific. Do you like kissing guys? How about the rest of their bodies? Their arms? Their chests? Their legs? Their buttocks? Do you like those? Do you caress a mans body during sex? How about his penis? Do you like looking at it? Do you like touching it? Holding it? Stroking it? How about is testicles? You can't forget them.
Yes I'm attracted to toned arms, moderately hairy chest, toned legs, and a very nice butt, something I grab I would caress a guy's body during sex. I find a hard penis very attractive and a turn on. I would touch it, hold it, and stroke it I would do the same for testicles. I find a moderate amount of public hair attractive. Typing all of this is actually turning me on. The only thing I'm unsure about his giving a blow job
I don't want to gag, there's a chance a guy may not be clean and there's a chance that a guy wouldn't respect me limits. I'm not saying all guy are like this, but chances are definitely real
You'd have to build trust with someone to not go beyond your limits. Have him wear a flavored condom if you're worried about uncleanliness. Or, just tell them you do oral.
guys are yummy! attractive, beautiful, amazing creatures. tasty, too. and they smell and sound so good.
Tell the guy who you decide to be with this is your first attempt he will be so excited. Make him shower scrub with soap etc, advise him not to move grab your head etc and your only doing it for 10 seconds. That's it no more don't ask for more you will think about it and then discuss tomorrow. When you processed discuss your thoughts, If he is decent he will understand I had a girl the same it took her a few months I think when she saw how turned on I got motivation kicked in. Cleanliness is huge as a guy if your not clean you should refuse a blow job and say why or just go shower first. Good luck
There is no Gay or Straight, just varying degrees of Bi. Perhaps you should evaluate where you fall on that Bi scale. Personally I consider myself to be 70% Straight. That is to say I can enjoy all the frills of Gay Sex, but I far prefer Straight Sex. I could never be romantically involved with a man, and although I enjoy the physical aspect of Gay Sex, I find the idea of kissing another man a turn off. Have you actually tried Oral, or is it just a matter of not being able to bring yourself to throw yourself in the deep end, so to speak? If you've never tried it, then perhaps you should force yourself to go through with it just the once & then reevaluate how you feel about it.
