Often you hear of people thinking of someone else during sex - someone from work or gym or TV star ....do you think of your partner or someone else ?
I look at his face or concentrate purely on the feeling; I never think of someone else during sex, there's no need to do that at all for me.
My partner.. I've never thought of anyone else when i've been with him. I did have one ex boyfriend that when we had sex I would recite the spanish alphabet in my head. it was really boring sex
Does he have his lollypop in or out of his mouth when he whispers in your ear, ( Who loves ya baby), you should get back to the old folks page where you belong, with me and the one other person on it. Oh by the way I'm going out crusin for hounds tonight want to join me. Peace
i dont think about anything, except whats happening in the moment. I dated one guy tho, and i always thought of my ex before him......
If it's ever boring sex or if I'm taking forever to cum, I usually do what I do when I masturbate. Which is run through a number of girls in my head & stop on the one who's face I want to cum all over. It's kind of like a slot machine mentality. You hope it stops on the hottie you still can't believe you actually got in bed in the first place & not stop on the fat skanky whore you fucked on a dare when you were drunk.
hopefully my partner and how good it feels. If I don't want to orgasm "just yet" I've found thinking about my tax return usually cools the ardour sufficiently.
I think of her and all sorts of other things. I don't know why. Sometimes I think of some random things if I don't want to cum too soon. Just depends. But if I am thinking of anything that isn't going on at the moment, it normally has something to do with her.