Who Brought Up Wife Sharing In Your Relationship?

Men and women. Which one of you (wife or hubby) brought up the subject of wife fucking other men and how did you get started. With me and my wife it was her that brought the subject up and we got started in it when she asked me to let her fuck a friend of ours in a threesome.

 

(I've posted this numerous times in various other threads, but why not again?)

My wife was a virgin when we met (now, almost 40 years ago.) At six years into our marriage, I was the only man who'd fucked her. I'd wanted to watch another guy fuck her, but not just anybody. I wanted it to be someone I knew and trusted. So, one day, I casually commented that it was too bad she'd never had the opportunity to have sex with anyone other than me and that it didn't seem fair to her. (She knew I'd been with a couple other women before we met.) I brought up this topic numerous times over several weeks, suggesting that maybe it wasn't too late. Once she got used to the possibility of it happening, I told her that I thought Steve (our friend) was the appropriate guy to get involved. He was one of our best friends, he was our age, he was good looking, my wife liked him, and I trusted him. It finally got down to her saying, "Well, if he's interested..." I knew I'd succeeded at that point because, how could he NOT be interested. My wife was smoking hot back then and he'd have my blessing. Sure enough, once I broached the subject to him, after he got over his shock, he readily agreed. They started fucking about three weeks later. After that, it became a frequent occurrence.

 

i brought it up after we had been married about 10 years. She had experience with other men before we were married, so I asked her if she missed the variety. She didn't say "no," so I suggested that she let one of the guys, sales reps, who called on her office fuck her. I knew they kept trying to seduce her. I even gave her some condoms. She finally got with one of them at a convention in another city. As far as I know, that satisfied the itch, and she didn't do it again.

 

As a follow-up to my previous post, I initiated the threesome (as indicated earlier), Steve and my wife fucked regularly for about six months (almost always with me present and usually, but not always, also fucking her, either before or afterwards.) Looking back on that time, I think I enjoyed watching Steve fuck her even more than I enjoyed fucking her myself!

 

I would mention it as we were having sex. How it would be nice to watch her suck cock as I fucked her. I never really had anyone in mind to be honest. This went on for a few years probably, off and on.

Then one day she told me a friend of her girlfriends had sent her a text about how he wanted to fuck her. The rest was history. We've been having MFM's and wife sharing ever since.

So I guess I planted the seed from all the bedroom talk lol

 

[SIZE=10pt]It was all Her idea right from the beginning, the story of how it got brought up or how it happen isn’t what you might think of how it happen between a husband and wife. How it did happen for us was a little unusual it wasn’t a typical conversation between my wife and I, I'll explain it the best I can from the beginning.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=10pt]One of my best friends had a new girlfriend I met her for the second time just a few days after her birthday. My friend had order her a birthday gift that didn’t come in on time for him to give to her on her birthday came in few days later. His car was broke down so he ask me for ride to her house that being the second time I met her. She was a great looking girl with a pretty face, long curly hair, her body smoking hot she had nice big tit’s plus a wonderful ass.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=10pt]The night I drove him to her house was a real snowing night so instead of me just dropping him off, then later going back to pick him up he said I should go inside her house for a while and hang out with them, so I did. After a while we decided to go snow sliding down hill near her house so we did we only had to walk about a block down her street. After sliding we got back to her house the three of us were totally soaking wet. We undress so she could dry out clothes off in the dryer my friend and I wrap towels around ourselves she put on short night shirt. We went up to her bedroom to watch TV as I walk up the stairs she was behind me my towel fell off of me a little flashing my ass to her, I heard her giggling behind me then heard her say “Gee you got a great ass.” [/SIZE]
[SIZE=10pt]When we got to her room I sat in beanbag chair the two of them laid on the bed. The three of us were relaxing, talking and watching TV. After while I could see my friend was getting playful with her on the bed, I ask if I should I leave the room he said yes, she spoke up right away saying to me not to leave. She turn to him started talking about some conversation they had the week before, she then turn to me pointing her figure right at me saying to my friend “I want it to be him let’s do it tonight.” [/SIZE]
[SIZE=10pt]My friend started to explain to me what the conversation was about with her the week before. She had ask him about a three some he had had with two girls from the bar he work at before they were dating she heard about the three some wanted to know everything about it. She told him she always thought about how fun it must be to have 3some with two guys and she wanted to do one with him but with the right other guy. So that night she pick me to join them and I agreed. That night was so wild and crazy and so wasn’t she I had fun joining in on her first three some, I join them few more times after that night. This girl also fixed me up with her best friend who also eventually joins in the fun few times in 4some, thinking back those were some fun months. After a while I broke up with her best friend, my friend broke up his girl, so about a year later her and I started dating, three years after dating we got married. So answer to the question my wife was the one who brought up the idea of a 3 some to me, she just wasn’t married to me at the time we barely knew each other, she was my friends girlfriend. We’ve had many 3some these past 38 years we’re a swinger couple, cuckold marriage just out to have fun since day one of meeting each other. Might be hard to believe but it is all true.[/SIZE]

 

nobody

 

Random, but alcohol and some, let's say pharma was involved. I had an old friend in town for the weekend staying with us and she had a boob job a year earlier. He only met her once and that was before the boobs. Since she got them I knew she had a desire for someone else besides me to see them. She had been with 3 guys prior if she was honest with me.
He kept looking at them and I finally told her she should show then to him and she was very shy until he said he had never seen a boob job before. Next thing you know she lets him feel them after she showed him. Then he just started kissing and sucking on them and she just leaned back and let him. I ran my hand down between her legs and started rubbing her pussy, I thought she would stop me when I did that and end things. She actually spread her legs a bit and I thought okay. Let's see how far she will go.
Once she started tugging at his belt and feeling him through his jeans I knew it was on. When she pulled his jeans down and pulled his dick out was when I had second thoughts. He was way bigger than me and she was sucking on him like her life depended on it. She made several comments about how big it was and how she had never had a big one. I just barley participated as he banged her on the sofa right next to me.

 

Great story Joboo6.

I was the one who started it. We were drunk and during foreplay We talked about porn we watched I commented on the guys nice cock, asked her if she liked it. Then told her I thought I would like sucking it. Then moving forward, as we fucked, I asked her if she would like to be fucked by him.
After a few conversations about it. We started to look for a guy to join us for a 3some.

 

I brought it up. I started asking her how many men she had slept with and what the best sex she had,had was. Told her it turned me on the more guys she had slept with.
She was a bit confused at first but tried to explain how I felt about it.
She eventually agreed to meet an ex for coffee in a busy shopping centre so I could watch her flirt from a distance.
She kissed him at the end of the meeting and said she would be in touch.
We talked about how it made us both feel.
She has since met up and slept with him on 3 occasions. I of course have done my duty and cleaned her up after each meeting.
We have been to a swingers clubs twice where I have watched her with other men.
We are going to fuerteventura in a couple of weeks and hope to have some fun in the sand dunes and clubs of an evening.
She started of slow and confused and now is suggesting more and more things she would like to try.

 

I'd brought it up numerous times over the years but she never really responded to it . One night she and the female half of our oldest friends walked in on us two guys, did a striptease , stripped us then proceeded to suck our cocks !
I still don't know for sure which of the two wives brought up the idea but I believe it was my wife. I think my wife had gotten some special feelings for him and figured that was a way she'd get to fuck him knowing I'd go along this way .

Unbeknownst to my wife and him....his wife and I had hooked up years earlier ( before I'd met and gotten to know him ) and had been enjoying ourselves for years . It worked out well for all of us as my wife got to fuck and suck him all she wanted as long as I was there.......except for that one time the three of them got together

 

We had a friend that I liked & me and him would always flirt, A LOT ! Hubby kept asking me to wear more reveling clothes. one night hubby said he was tied & goig to bed & told his friend not to do anything that he wouldn't do ! MMMMMM !!!!!

 

I brought it up. She was letting me have sex with guys so I told her it would only be fair if for her to be able to as well but I wanted to watch or participate.

 

Him at first....

 

Thanks

, This is how we got started!

 

You lucked out with a cool hubby. And he lucked out with an amazing lady!

 

Just once I'd love to hear one of you just say the truth and admit you started swinging because you just got soooo fucking bored looking at each others bits for decades

 

Thanks! And Yes we did !

 

My neighbour