Just here for advice, have this girl i really like, asked her out for tea so I can ask her out, best way to get nerve up and be romantic? thanks!
If you want to go about it romantically, do something you'll be comfortable/confident with (flowers, buying her tea, small gestures, etc.), or you could go about it casually, saying how you really like spending time with her and would love to date and see where things go.
"Hi there, I was wondering if you'd like to go out for a cup of coffee or tea sometime? What times work good for you?" or something along those lines. Confidence is really one of the sexiest things around, just try and stay calm. Worst that happens is she turns you down, and that's not even a terribly bad thing Just curious, what does this have to do with the thread title of "whipped"?
From what i understand from your post, you have already asked her out for tea, and want to know how to ask her out for a "real date". Am I correct? It should not be hard. Spend half an hour during the tea talking about things of mutual interest, and not just things you are interested in, but things that interest her, and illuminate her personality. Near the end, say that you really enjoyed these discussions, and want to continue them over dinner, a movie, an outing in the park, a picnic, whatever. If the tea conversation went well, she will say yes. Remember, she is probably just as nervous on a first date as you are. Go for it.
i think ya should go for it too, just one question though, why did you put whipped in the title of this thread when its not to do with whipping?
