Because, crudely put, it's basically like a tiny penis. That's where most of the nerves are. The more blood you can coax to fill the flesh there, the more it responds. Ok, I found an anatomy illustration. http://www.cs.nsw.gov.au/cancer/sgog/assets/Vulva.jpg I'm sure others will be happy to fill you in on more details too.
It's the place where the tongue feels the most comfortable! *sigh* Just carefully move it around down there, it'll tell you when it's 'home.'
It's at the top of the pussy just below where the minor labia meet at the top of the vaginal slit. It looks like a little button just begging to be teased....
i have a problem. i know where the clit is and what it does, but i can't seem to find mine, and neither can my boyfriend! theres like nothing there, and i don't feel anything there either. we've found my "deep" spot plenty of times, but it would be awesome if i could get some clitoral stimulation as well. can anyone relate?
Well, what did you find? I'm curious-I knew one girl that actually didn't have a clit (no hood either)-I just couldn't wait to lick it, only to find that she didn't have one! Just a couple of very small folds of skin coming from where the clit should have been-the area was completely flat, and totally insensitve to my persistent licking. Oh, well, I tried. Anyway, if you've got a hood there's a good chance something's underneath it. I think some girls have hoods that are hard to raise....
Kind of a fold, yea-it's skin that you should be able to pull up toward your belly button-if you pull it up (gently) that direction, a quarter to a half an inch (maybe a little more, depending on how big your clit is) it should expose the head-I knew one girl who couldn't raise the hood on hers. My ex liked to pull the skin back with her fingers so that I could lick it real easily-either that or I pulled it back. If she laid down on the bed and pulled that skin back and looked in my eyes, I knew what she wanted! *sigh* Even if it's covered by the hood, you should be able to feel your clit as a knob the size of a pea or bigger, especially if you're horny and it's hard, in between your vaginal opening and the area where your pubic hair starts.
ok....i'll check it out. i think i do have the hood tho...cuz my bf's pulled it back. i'll get back to you on it
alrighty guys, i checked last night, but results werent good....theres some sortta mound, which i always assumed was my clit, and should be, but its relatively flat, and i get no stimulation whatsoever. i guess i just dont have one....
Hmm...well, as the hipforums resident clitoral expert, without conducting a comprehensive exam, it's a little hard to say for sure, but.....the mound sounds like it probably is your clit-how does it respond when you get horny? Does it get hard (harder) when you're excited? Any feeling there? Just curious.
As a fellow clit lover(lol), I would like to also add that some clitorises are VERY small, and on top of that, they may not get particularly hard even when erect. Doesn't mean it ain't there though, seaweed. Key is to explore. To start off, get thoroughly aroused first. Then, placing your finger(s) around where your clit WOULD BE, try flexing your PC muscles and see if you can feel a structure throbbing beneath the skin in time with your flexing. You may, or may not feel such movement, but if you DO feel it, try to make out the shape of your clitoral shaft. Again, you've got one there even if you can't feel it. Just take your time, relax, and you'll be able to locate it sooner or later.........I think.
