Where to meet girls?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Avocado Noni, Jan 25, 2007.

  1. Avocado Noni

    Avocado Noni Member

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    Hey y'all
    I've kinda been Missing in Action for a while if you guys know what I mean...and lately I've really been craving some sexual healing, like, unbearably so...and it's starting to take a toll on my mental health and I'm gettin kinda desperate for some loving....Not gettin' any when you are my age is just not natural.

    So I'm wondering if you guys can give me a little advice as to some good places for a male who is about 18 years old to meet a mate? And what are good ways to pick a girl up?

    I'm not just trying to pick a girl uip for a one night stand or anything, but it's just been a while since I've played the dating field and I would always love advice from the female side of things, and the internet seems like a great place to go. Wanting to know what girls want isnt selfish or manipulative or anything...it just makes sense. So someone please tell me ;P !!! Any and all advice is welcome : )

    I'm definatley attractive and I'm def. a good guy, very good lover and I love to give...I just have a hard time meeting people and getting things started.

    So my questions are: Where is a great place to meet girls, or what is a great way to meet them? And what is a great way to attract girls once you do meet them?

    Thanks and All my love,
    Avocado
     
  2. WayfaringStranger

    WayfaringStranger Corporate Slave #34

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    its called life bro. just live it. afer you know a girl for awhile, you will know if there is chemistry or not. so really the quickest solution is just not to worry about it, and see what comes up.
     
  3. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    Join a club, a singing group, or a hiking group, etc of people your age.
     
  4. aDVan84

    aDVan84 Member

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    guys are really clueless on the places to meet gurls im kinda wondering where to myself
     
  5. katyismename

    katyismename Member

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    through friends is a good one, or clubbing is good, parties etc.
     
  6. bigo

    bigo Member

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    ok if u want to get a girl then talk to her dont try to get down her pants wen u meet them thats wat i was told by my older brother tha has a wife wit a 2 year old son... dont let her no u need some cause she might make u wait then again she might give it to u... i would go to small house partys or the mall friends is a good way to meet them to...
     
  7. verseau_miracle

    verseau_miracle Banned

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    what are you interested in? Follow that, like someone said go to clubs for it etc, then youll find people with a similar mindset. Oh and dont look too hard. Just enjoy whatever you decide to persue and theyll come to you
     
  8. EazyE

    EazyE Senior Member

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    The internet. You could try those things which search for singles in your area.
     
  9. PsyGrunge

    PsyGrunge Full Fractal Force

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    Asking for advice on pulling is the wrong thing to do for starters. You seriously have to give it all YOU got. Work on your various positive points, show confidence but at the same time a good varied sense of humour.
    It has to come from within, it can't really be learnt. You either have it or you don't, conversation is the key and eye contact is also a big pointer.

    The only advice you should take are the four words I was told when I was younger. JUST GO FOR IT.
     
  10. CaptainBeefheartFan

    CaptainBeefheartFan Screwed Up

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    put an ad in the personals hahahahahahahahahahaha

    where else to go but hit up the clubs my bru

    also, hang around places that you like, like maybe a cofee shop that has concerts with music you like, or something like that, there's bound to be a girl who shares your interests whos there
     
  11. Ressotaspiks Man

    Ressotaspiks Man Member

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    PSygrunge

    Sorry gotta disagree with u on pulling.
    It can be a hard skill to learn BUT it can be learned.

    Clubs are prob one of the hardest places to pull if u havent got the skills.
    Easiest way is to have a thriving social network.
    If your friends are coupled off and they dont introduce u to people , maybe u should start moving in new circles - or get learning ways of pulling with your friends.

    BTW alot of people like the internet to pull- and there are some fit girls there , not all xxxs. : )
     
  12. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    :puke: I hate the term "pulling", makes me think of just one night stands or using people, a disposable kind of attitude

    Anyways.
    I've met the bulk of my dates online, with free dating sites like okcupid.com and plentyoffish.com. They've worked for me. Friends of friends are good too, or joining clubs.
     
  13. Cutted

    Cutted Cutted

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    To meet girls - join an activity or social club where you are working on things of mutual interest, and start converstions with girls you like, and talk about them, not you. Find out what they are interested in first, and ask them on a date to do that.
     

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