When Your Man Isn't 'Eating'.....When Your Woman Isn't 'Sucking'

What would you do if your man or woman wasn't into oral sex at all? Would you live with it or do you think it would cause you to stray???

 

I'd break up with them. And that includes if they weren't into receiving oral sex either. It's too big of a part of the sexual experience, in my opinion.

 

yeah i once dated a guy who told me, after we had sex the first time (a mistake, let me tell you), that he was not into oral sex and it really turned me off and well.... i just can't deal with sexually close-minded ppl.. i'm very open and like to be creative in bed, so no oral sex basically means no sex. *shrug* i may sound cold-hearted. i guess i would stick around if i thought there was hope to get them to become more open-minded, but oral sex isn't that weird and well, i like to get much weirder, so i dont' think i would be satisfied without oral....

 

I can't even imagine how someone could not like it! It would definitely be a problem for me though because I pretty much get all of my pleasure from oral sex since actual intercouse is somewhat painful and just doesn't do it for me in quite the same way. Besides, I love giving oral too.

 

I would not have that sort of lover, why be with someone whom is not what you like?

 

Oral sex is a huge part of the whole sexual act. If someone's not willing to have oral sex, they have a problem.

 

The first night that my love and I spent together, after we had been feeling each other out so to speak, I asked if I could go down on her.....she said yes.....and I was so happy. Later she said that in the past she usually had not wanted lovers to do that. I felt very lucky that I was so close to her so fast...
Another thing that I loved was when she would act pouty and say, "I want my sucker!"
So of course, I felt obliged to say yes......
The things we do for love........

 

I don't think I'd stay for very long. If they really weren't into it, I would have a lot of needs unfulfilled.

I had to teach my man how to like it. now he doesn't get enough. He loves it so much, he offered the other night and I was too tired, and he said he didn't care. I could fall alseep if I wanted to, he just had to have a taste before bed.

what a nice way to drift off!

 

i'd be gone, what a boring person

 

I'd would deal with it. (like i am right now) my fiancee refuses to go down on me but doesn't mind receiving. Im just dealing with it and hopefully he will have a change of heart.

 

it wouldn't be a big deal at all as long as it was something they weren't into in general as opposed to something they weren't into just with me.

 

I don't think I'd be willing to give him a bj if he doesn't want to get down.. certainly not if it's out of principal or sth.. why doesn't he want to do it? When you're nice and clean.. what's the big deal?

 

If my boyfriend had me give him blow jobs and wouldn't go down on me, I would kick his fucking ass and I certainly wouldn't give it to him. That is just selfish.

 

I'd be gone. I dated a guy once and constantly wanted me to go down on him but refused to go down on me. I finally stopped giving it to him and he got all mad, so i had to kick him to the curb. If you dont give you dont get. Not everytime but i enjoy oral sex and i enjoy giving but i think it is a give and take act, and an act that is a major part of my sexual expeirences.

 

I used to be weird about guys going down on me, but that was only because it was never done right and I didn't think I was able to enjoy it. Yeah, I was wrong...lol. If my man wasn't into oral, then we'd have a problem, because I love to do everything in bed...no inhibitions. I actually enjoy giving more than receiving, so if he had a problem with me going down on him...then uh...wait, is there really any guy who doesn't like someone going down on them...? lol. So yeah, close-mindedness in bed is a no-no, and would either be remedied or the guy would be gone.

 

!!! i cant imagine the crime

 

I would still eat her pussy, just to eat pussy. I am a pussy eating whore, but after that I would be "on the road again"

 

you'd eat her pussy even if she didn't want you to?

 

Yes...well I mean it would be kinda hard to, if she didnt want me to. She could possibaly use her legs as a nut cracker or head cracker

 

I'm sorry and I dont want to get into your business at all so dont take this TOO personal but it really scares me that you think this guy will have a "change of heart"...you're getting married! If he wont do it now, what makes you think he'll do it after you're married? I think it just worries me because I've heard so many people come from divorse saying "I thought he would change after we were married."...I hope your ONLY problem is that he wont go down on you...if it is the only problem, good luck in your marriage and I wish you well.