when you dont love your partner, how do you think of the promise?

Discussion in 'True Love' started by jy02927731, Apr 21, 2008.

  1. jy02927731

    jy02927731 Member

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    my girlfriend tell me to separate...it hurt me so much!!!

    everytime I remember the sweet things or the promises between us...I was upset..
    why hurt me so much and hurt her just a few!?
    is she cruel!?I dont know how can she so cruel !?
     
  2. stalk

    stalk Banned

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    uhhhhhhhhhhh
     
  3. silverhippy

    silverhippy Comfortably Numb

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    It may sound cruel now, but in the long run it may be what is right, if she has lost feeling for you, you really don't want her to pretend do you ? Time heals all wounds, someone new will come along.

    Peace
     
  4. Throbin_Bob

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    Dude Look at it this way, your 19 single and summer is just around the corner.. what else do you want? Soon you'll be seeing half naked gurls coming out of the woodwork looking for a summer fling.
     
  5. jy02927731

    jy02927731 Member

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    I still cant forget her ...
    she live in my heart...and everytime I think it ,just like sticking a arrow to my heart~!!
     
  6. Asswoman

    Asswoman Member

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    I know you are talking about. I have went though the same thing. Found out he was cheating and lying to me. It hurts horribly at frist but as time goes by, it will become easier for you. I have been broke up for almost 3 months now. Everything he said I think was all LIES and cover ups just to keep me around. It might be easy for her cause she might have found someone else and just not told you about them. So with time your heart will want to move on and find someone else. Just take one day at a time and remember that you have to be happy with yourself and with your parnter. Life is to short.
     
  7. jy02927731

    jy02927731 Member

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    yes yes ys ~~you are right ...
    she like another,and hurt me ...much.
     
  8. Asswoman

    Asswoman Member

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    I know it hurts. Trust me, I lost 40 lbs., because of the hurt and pain I went though. But let me tell you. It does get better. It has been almost 3 months now. I am doing GREAT. I have met new people to hang out with. Will still talk, he said he had mess up and would like to work at being US again but I think I need time because I DO NOT trust him and for me trust is a big thing and don't seem like he wants to earn the trust back. So it will get better. Time will heal your heart and you will meet new people and you never know what may lie ahead. So just take one day at a time. Enjoy life because life is to short. Good luck
     
  9. dreamingofTheo

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    Curious??? How are you doing now?? Hope all is well, Found a new girl yet??? Young love can be strange,,,but it happens to us old foggies too. Only thing is there is a big ole` world out there with a whole bunch of people in it,,,Thank God.

    Love is a big word,,,and sometimes it is a big risk,,,I use to use this saying,,,it is better to have love and lost,,, than to have never loved at all.

    The moral to that story is,,,that with each new relationship,,,it helps you to see what is real in love and what is not. What real love is,,,I have a couple of guys after me,,,such as that is,,,there is one man I would like to be with,,,hitman38 but HE went SOMEWHERE,,,but I did and do care about him still,,,I always will,,,wherever he went. I have told him this in many different e-mails if he has ever read any of them,,,anyway.

    To use each experience towards finding the real love of your life,,,that is what you are to do.,,,,hang in there and smile,,,
     
  10. Asswoman

    Asswoman Member

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    I also would like to know how you are doing as well. I am doing great now. Please let us know how you are doing?
     
  11. burning_neverland

    burning_neverland Member

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    Broken english much?
     
  12. TransAmRocker

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    so she wont love you long time anymore?
     

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