I'm unsure myself when enough will be enough. Does this affect women as well as men in the same way or is it something that is a compulsion more than anything else? I'm talking about sucking cock. When I was in my 20's-30's I was what many would say obsessed with having my cock sucked by a woman. I never dated a woman who didn't suck cock and they were all really good at it and satisfied me to the end to swallow my load. Then I age into my late 30's to begin sucking guys cocks myself being that my wife was not providing and meeting my needs. I only started sucking cock after allowing several guys to suck me off and found it equally as enjoying and sometimes far better. Here I am now at 59 years of age with a "Suck Bud" 2-3 times a week and I find myself wanting to suck his cock more than 2-3 times a week. Is this just a "man thing" or do women also find themselves wanting to suck a cock many times a week? From my experiences with women, they are able to switch their sexual desires (whether giving or receiving) on and off like a light switch whereas me (a man) seem to be unable to flip a switch and not desire to suck a guy's cock. I was just with my man today with two friends and sucked them all off for at least 40 minutes each and it was not enough action or cum to seem to satisfy me as they all went limp even after sucking them for another 30 minutes, yet they obviously had enough. I sucked them dry. OMG, I need more but none is available. I sucked those limp cocks and balls and enjoyed it. Is it me or do women and are women capable of what I experience. I already know that sucking cock is an obsession for me personally but after sucking three guys off one would seem to be satisfied but I was not. I wanted more. Is it the cum I am addicted to because I always swallow and do enjoy doing so as I see the look of satisfaction on his face when I do as he holds the back of my head and thrusts his cum spewing cock deep in my throat as he moans out load his enjoyment. I know this is long, but I am at a point in my life where it seems that all I want to do is suck a guy's cock and make him happy while swallowing his load of cum. I can't seem to get it out of my mind and am not sure I ever will at this point. Should I seek out a therapist to discuss my obsession or should I just continue to discuss it with my wife who at this point knows EVERYTHING. It's not like I want to stop what I'm doing but I feel I need to curtail it some as it does consume a good portion of my thoughts and time throughout each day and let's face it, I have no self-control once his cock is revealed to me, and he's wanting some really good oral satisfaction from my warm, sloppy wet mouth.
You can suck cocks if you like, as long as the other guy enjoys it go for it I would let a guy suck me off and take my load if that's his thing I like it when females suck cock. I'm inclined to try sucking a cock given the chance.
The latest thoughts are that sex addiction isn't a distinctive disorder. But you might have a bit of OCD or addiction to the dopamine high off of it? The keys are if it impairs your relationship with your partner, interferes with work, and affects relationships with friends, or hygiene & getting bills paid, endangering your health - then it would be worthwhile seeking out therapy. You seem to be at the point where it could help as it is concerning you? But search for an LGBTQ friendly one, and possibly also sex positive one. I'll PM you later when I have more time.
Soooo... strangely enough, or not. I have been thinking about this as well - I am simply obsessed with getting another dick in my mouth. It may very well be the dopamine high- because it is a high of sorts for me. It was bothering me because I tend to put a label on it - like "slut" or "whore" or some negative energy like that - and it makes me feel badly, angry, too- that I would put a label on myself like that. I am in the same boat and have followed a similar thought - I don't think I am addicted but I do think about it a lot and I pursue it a lot. My bills are paid, and I manage to work full time successfully...and I would say the only thing that has been an issue for me is that my attraction to men and my unwillingness to accept my wife's request to be monogamous - which also meant celibate. but, the impairment of our relationship led me to having the freedom to seek rendezvous with other guys who want to get their cocks sucked.
Sometimes you gotta please yourself. Being married and sucking cock on the side won't sit well with everyone but it's your life. Just keep sucking cock if that makes you happy. You only live once
While not being as prolific in my cock sucking endeavors as some, it definitely didn't go the way I thought it would when I first gave into the urge. I thought I could try it once, get it out of my system and be done with it. Even though I felt so conflicted after that first time I returned to it several years later. I found it impossible to put behind me, now I knew. I knew the feeling of a mans hard cock in my hand and then mouth. The spongy, springy cock that wants to be there as much as I wanted it. He sought me out as much as did him. Now after close to a dozen cocks, most of them more than once I crave it as much if not more than ever. A mans desire and enthusiasm for me is too hard to ignore. The guy I meet with now desires me sexually and I him. It is simply too difficult to go back now. I’m less conflicted now and able to enjoy it more than I ever have.
