When I lost control, I go nuts!!!

Its been forever that I've premature ejac prob. I thought it'll go away as I grow older but I was wrong. It's still the same, I can't have sex because of this, I can't last long and especially after I came. I can't keep the same sexual momentum, I lose everything, I can't see her the same way, I get really frustrated and sometimes when she comes closure I feel lyk pulling her back. I don't want to do that, I love that girl, I don't want to screw my realtionship because of my immaturity. Anyone has better solution for me!!!

 

You have a problem with this? There must be many resources on the internet that deal with this. There are a lot of possible solutions, depending on why this is happening to you... . How old are you? If you do it a second time, does it happen then, too?

 

I'm in 20's. I don't feel anything the second time.

 

As a lay sex therapist, I have advised many young men with premature ejaculation problems, and cured most of them. Here is what you do:

1. Use a thick condom.

2. Count each of your thrusts inward - you will focus more on counting than cumming.

3. Think of your penis as pulling something out rather than ejaculating something in (a kama sutra technique).

4. Stop thrusting all the way in, and just do the first two or three inches, or better still, do nine short thrusts, one deep thrust, then eight short and two deep, 7 and 3, etc. until you are doing 10 deep ones.

5. Just before you cum, reach down and gently push down your balls from the top - you will notice that they are no longer hanging loosely, but have nested right up under the shaft of your penis. Do this gently, however, and your urge to ejaculate will go away.

6. Use desensitizing cream before sex.

7. Pull out if you feel you are about to cum - take a short break.

8. Practice masturbating to the point of orgasm and trying to stop it. Focus on the changes in your body as you approach orgasm and understand exactly when you reach the point of no return and stop just before that. Bring youself again to the point of orgasm and stop. Do it again and again until you no longer can stand it.

Let me know how it goes and send me a private message.

 

hey i have had the same problems too. i can get blown forever and not have to cum, but when i start penetrating i just bust it like a minute and i cant help it. any advice? I'm on winter break right now so I'm not seeing this girl for a few more weeks until i get back to school

 

anyone?

 

A blowjob isn't like a vagina. Constant sensation, a tight **** and repetitive thrusting can easily bring a man to orgasm. A blowjob is definitely sensational, but not like sex. Take the advice mentioned above; I'd have said the same thing.