When does the sex drive wane?

I've been with my partner for 5 years now and we are still at it like rabbits to this day!

We are in our early 30s, no kids, not married (we want neither, happy as we are), still fancy eachother like crazy!

It is not like I am complaining, but what sort of factors make the sex drive decrease?

 

congrats on having a lot of fun for 5 years and hope you get a whole bunch more time playing horny bunnies....

There are a lot of factors that can come into play like medical issues, personal stress but as long as you stay healthy it will give you more chances.

Kids can pull really hard on a relationship and raising them and keeping a persons sanity is not always possible. I know when my wife had our kids she totally changed and before anyone chimes in that a mom does a lot of work she was the type to sit on the couch and let me take care of all of it.

keep it fun

 

Guys in their 80s can still do it (at least some of them) with a little help from Cialis or Viagra.

 

Hopefully never! But to answer your question, you said you have no kids? Keep it that way. Once you have kids, shes all over rover! Lucky im remarried and our sex life is awesome. One my ex and i had kids, bye bye sex...i miss you...

 

Please don't think that just because you have kids and get older, that sex needs to wane at all.

I'm 63 and my sex drive is even more strong than it was when I was 23 (and it wasn't bad then). It might slow down when you have kids, but other things can do that as well... health, work, stresses, injury.

But you can usually do things to revive it.

 

Funnily enough my man was hoping he is stick 'fucktioning' in his 60s onwards! LOL

No, we have no plan on having children. We hear on so many documentaries and in real life of the men feeling neglected or left out. I would not want that for my partner. We are both very highly sexed!

 

Hard to take you seriously about claiming to have a high sex drive if you are talking about sticking to the same guy for years. If you had a high sex drive, really it should be for any guy with eyes that make you melt. Otherwise Yawn

 

Well, I do not screw around. Luckily I have a man who meets my sexual needs and neither of us are feeling unfulfilled.

I thought it was a sex addict that sleeps with every Tom Dick (AHEM) and Harry and drops their knickers for any man that so much as looks at them. I had a friend like that, slept with 60+ men in 2 years and had many abortions because of it. Also, she sleeps with the men and then she dumps them via text, she never went out with them, just brought them straight to her place because she could not get a babysitter for her child....

 

Perhaps You Should Have Advised Your Friend About A Little

Something Called "Birth Control"...



Cheers Glen.

 

I did, but she didn't listen, hence why I do not bother with her anymore, she would allow strangers to play 'daddy' child as well. I advised her about her and her child's safety but it just fell on deaf ears.

 

I didnt say every Tom Dick and Harry, I said the ones that make you melt, you know the ones

You are lucky enough to have a man who meets all your needs do you? And how many times are you thinking about other guys when he is on top of you? Dont pretend you dont fantasize about others

 

Yawn

 

What I noticed is that the sex drive might still be there but the strength of the orgasms wanes quite a bit. Well, I've been with my wife for 18 years.

Sometimes I miss those orgasms that make your body shake and pull every muscle in your body. She also used to have these but not anymore.

 

Are you thinking that her orgasms wane because of age?

That may not be what is causing it.

I still have orgasms that shake your body and pull muscles.. in fact, I have them even more now than before. As well as multiple orgasms, one right after another.

I get so tired of people assuming that sex lessens or goes away completely just because you get older. For some people it does.. and for a variety of reasons. But it does sometimes at younger ages too. For some people, even for women... it gets stronger and better as you get older.

 

I don't think it's because of her age. She is in her mid thirties, I'm very late thirties. My thinking is that it's waning because it has all become too familiar.

She still orgasms almost every time we have sex but she no longer trembles or gets the shakes but the vocal expression is still there.

 

I envy you though, the fact that your orgasms are getting stronger with time!

 

I hope it isn't until after I die! So far, so GOOD!

 

What I can say is that at the moment I want more than I'm getting.

 

Maybe it's time to try new things. You're right, that too much of the sameness can be the problem.

Check her health first and then look at toys, erotica, new positions, fantasies...

 

Maybe its time to try new guys