When did you loose your hangups and discover other sexual options?

Was there a time in your life when you finally lost your inhibitions and hangups and decided to explore different sexual options? Have you and your partner discovered together or were you left to explore on your own? Was there something special that contributed to your enlightenment?

 

About 6 years ago. On my own. Glad I did

 

I had a bi sub guy over at my place a couple times, still nervous, only did frotting and stroking together. But the warmth of another hardon next to mine was a mind blowing sensation! And him starting to slide onto me, stopping him in the heat of the moment, was so close to being uninhibited but missed my chance. Within a month went to a hotel party to rip the band aid off and finally try sucking cock. I tried a few and lightning didnt strike me down! It was fun, and a couple returned the favor, but no cumming either way.
I realized I was more than just curious, and it wasn't just a phase anymore. I still prefer women vastly more, but know there is fun to be had with the right men.
Now I just have to find a safe bi guy to be FWB with and explore without the hangups. I had one, ready to meet right when the lockdown happened and he moved right as I got vaccinated, so missed that chance, but gained a bi friend for life, though he's far away now.

 

I had urges for decades but couldn’t bring myself to pull the trigger. Looking back on it I think I was bisexual long before I wanted to admit it. It’s been a long slow process for me, but menopause bringing on a no sex situation at home has brought some urgency to it. I still prefer women also, but I’ve had some very fun times with men.

 

It waa ten yeaes ago. I was alone and on my own. The timing was right and opportunity was there. It was a now or never type of moment.

 

I was seduced by an older guy during a massage when I was about 21 or 22. That was a long time ago, but I can still recall the internal conflict I was experiencing during that seduction. Finally, I truly did let go of my hangups. I distinctly remember that moment when I decided to just let go. I had probably the strongest orgasm of my life, about 7 strong squirts right into his mouth. Afterwards, he was so kind and affectionate with me.

So, I instantly got over my hangups about not only sex with other men, but also affection with other men, all in the same evening. Since then, I have had an active and rewarding sex life with both men and women.

 

It's a nice feeling isn't it?

 

It is. If more men discovered their sense of worth in intimate relationships, they would spend far less time picking fights and starting wars

 

I was 21 and at an even for students interested in law school. It was at a hotel and there were alums from various schools. I was a few drinks in and having a good conversation with an older (64) guy but it was really loud. He wanted to give me some advice but it was loud so we took our drinks up to his room. When we got there he said he would be happy to help and didn’t want anything other than maybe a little sign of appreciation. I asked what he meant and he set his drink down and unzipped his pants. I’d never done anything with a guy before but I was drunk, wanted to get in, and he had a very nice looking 6” cock. So I just said “fuck it” dropped to my knees and sucked his cock for about 5 minutes then swallowed all of his cum. I was so hard. After I finished, we talked for about an hour and he gave me a lot of advice for applying and getting experience. Afterwards I told him that I really appreciated his insight. He said “oh yeah? How much did you appreciate it?” Taking the hint I got back on my knees and took his thick cock back in my mouth. He lasted longer this time.

 

While I discovered other sexual options early in life, the hang ups stayed with me a long time.
I was shy being naked in front of people even if they were naked too.
Despite being bisexual I was very apprehensive about word getting out.
My girlfriends had a similar interest in pushing the envelope with me about all of my hang ups.
Despite being shy I never did refuse a girlfriends request, whether it was a threesome or if she wanted me naked in front of people.
I learned that despite the embarrassment, I got really turned on.

 

Guess it was when I had a coworkers cock looking at me. Opened my mouth and took it in. Hang ups were gone in an instant. Nerves were replaced with enjoyment and I have never looked back.

 

Having a cock look at you! love it

 

I was 38 the first time I got a blow job from a man. That started it all

 

In my opinion, men give the best blow jobs.

 

I agree

 

That's sort of my story too. I had some feelings most of my life. I guess it depends on what cards are dealt to you early on. I even had a close friend in the air force who was bi and teasingly hinting now and then, but I was just embarrassed by it because of the close barracks proximity to others. I put it out of my mind until about 50 and after long sexless periods drove me to depression and a psychologist visit. She suggested I get a woman on the side. I tried with the wife's permission. (Yes I couldn't believe it at the time) but nothing came of it out of some sort of stage fright droop. With her permission as well, my male to male oral story started then. Well, I'm 68 and didn't divorce her way back then. I kick myself for that but she was so understanding. Now it's difficult to know what to do with my sexual urges.

 

It takes more than just having sex organs available for play. I got on well with guys my age and older, who were friendly and horny but moderate. It's not out of the question that I find a friend for mutual release as long as the wife and I still try to explore getting it on, as well, not instead of.

 

Yes I've got to look around and hook up with someone with His own place who's not pushy for anal stuff. There must be some around. There's little fun in just wanking myself for relief when I have some alone time.