For those that like edging when did you first discover it? When I was younger and living with my parents I just rubbed one out whenever I could. Then I was about 19 my parents went away for the weekend. This was long before the internet so I used the opportunity to take out all the pics or magazines that turned me on. Most of them featured women's wrestling. Also had some nice pics of my friend's mom. Anyway because I was really able to take my time I found myself bringing myself to the edge of ejaculating and then stopping. It took a lot of will power but I did this several times over the course of 3-4 hours. Then boom I blew a load like never before. Came all over this one pic of my friend's mom. Nowadays whenever I masturbate I try to make it so I edge for at least two hours.
Question is, while masterbating, how long is considered to be ‘edging’? Or is it not how long, but how many times do you take it to the edge?
That's probably subjective. I think it could be either one. For me it's at least two hours. I usually take it to the edge at least 5 times. Usually more.
Definitely got into edging later in life but it evolved. When I was a young lad my refractory period was pretty short and I could simply take ejaculation orgasms for granted and be ready to go again without much thought or planning. At best back then I would delay cumming watching porn and time my orgasm with the sex scene's cum shot. As I got older recovery took longer. On weekends I knew I could get sex but I loved all the porn that was appearing on the internet and would masturbate but not let myself cum. It felt so good to be in a perpetual highly aroused state. I began to appreciate that feeling more and more and it is now my preferred way to masturbate. I don't do the start stop type of edging that some do. I just let myself get close and slow down and keep it there. I edged for 3 hours today and didn't cum. I could have and wanted to go much longer. Pure bliss. And I'm so horny.
I've been edging since 14 or 15. Not sure, really, how I figured it out, but once I did, I was hooked on that edge....
I discovered during sex with my wife years ago. She would tease me by stopping us screwing or a hj or bj. She would say...we will save that for later. She would sometimes do that a few times during the day to me. My balls would ache. But when we got down to business later it was a flood and so intense. I learned to do it too during my masturbating.
Probably discovered edging about 15 years ago. Sometimes when I have the time I finally finish and am amazed it took two hours.
With me, the amount of time is not nearly as important as how many times I can take it to the edge without losing it -- I don't count it, though, unless I start to get the quivery, jerky, squeezing sensation of contractions all over down there, and then I'll back off & start over ... sometims I'll get a small amount of cum seeping up & out, but that doedn't stop me or even slow me down! The highest number of those I've ever enjoyed in a single session (of about 2 hours) was 22; I was sore afterward, but wore a silly grin on my face for several days! And I was doing for decades before I ever heard it called 'edging'!
With a prostitute who was giving me a bj. I started fondling her really big breasts and was overcome with the desire to slide between them. My first ever titfuck I think. I wanted to have as much sexual pleasure as I could get and I took my cock out several times during the titfuck, it was bouncing wildly when orgasming. She actually loved the experience of me edging myself between her breasts and she was always eager to take the head in her mouth when I pushed higher. I really wanted to cum between her breasts but she didn’t want to have the mess on her all night so I came in her mouth. That was two new things at once that evening
I had a little edging session this morning. I always think I'm going to count how many times I take it to the edge, but get caught up in it and forget. I don't know, a half hour session, maybe ten or twelve times. What I think is as important is the ride up and being able to hold it on the edge a while until I need to stop or it fizzles out.
Like most of you guys, it was later in life for me as well. When I was younger I would just jerk out load after load as the thought or desire occurred, never had the patience to hold out / stop along the way. Fast forward to my 20's - just before the internet was very porn friendly - my ex and I sort of developed a fascination for cum shots so we started making a cum shot compilation VHS video tape. We would rent a few porn videos and then using 2 vcrs, copy just the cumshots along the way. I was operating 2 remote controls at the same time and trying to do good video editing so it didn't lend itself to synchronized jacking. My ex got to lay there with her toys and just enjoy cum after cum and I would sort of stroke and tease along the way but would have to stop along the way to hit play/record/pause/stop/rewind/ etc... After we captured all the shots, I'd rewind the tape and finally have the chance to enjoy uninterrupted stroking but by this point I'd be so worked up it wouldn't take long but we would both be amazed at the final resulting explosions! A few years later, I discovered Solotouch.com and started reading everyone's own masturbation and sexual experience stories and that's where I really started down the path of actual edging. I'd read lots of stories and stroke/tease for sometimes hours on end. The result was always incredibly satisfying and incredibly messy and I've enjoyed it ever since!
Can't remember how long I'd been doing it when I first read about it. I used to watch videos and only touch myself when I could see a vagina on screen and stop when the camera angle or the girl turned around until it was back in shot. The challenge was to make it all the way to the money shot before cumming. I found it made the orgasm way more intense. My wife doesn't get it and doesn't do it. Her orgasm seems more fragile than mine and once or twice I tried edging her and she lost the orgasm entirely. She has done it to me a few times when jerking me off, I wish she did it more. She knows my body, stops just in time and says "oh no, there's only one place you're allowed to cum" it's insanely hot. When I'm fucking her there's no way, she tends to get carried away and rides me hard or tells me to fuck her hard which turns me on so much I can't hold on.