When did you consider the Bi Option?

It never entered my mind until my wife planted the seed in my head. She was done with sex and suggested that I should mess around with our old gay friend. He was now alone and admittedly still horny, but he wasn't the out going type and also in his 70s. He had seen my cock and huge cum shots and said it was an open offer, with my wifes blessing, I might add.
I eventually caved and accepted his offer. Would't you?

 

I think give it a try, you have nothing to lose.

 

I considered it the first time my gf and I had a guy over for a threesome. It wasn’t part of my plan but there it was his hard cock freshly out of my girlfriends pussy, she held it out towards me and giggled. I just went for it.

 

I first considered it in the middle of a situation where a guy was seducing me. It never entered my mind before that.

After I got over my initial reservations, the build-up and my orgasm were so strong that I have been bi ever since. That was over 50 years ago.

 

I've thought about it for many years, but only acted on it 2 years ago after my wife and I separated. I've had 4 encounters and I'm looking forward to further pursuits, but have to be careful as this is a small town. This summer I'm going on vacation to Rehoboth Beach De. which has a large LGBTQ population. Pretty sure something good will "come" of it

 

A lot of my best encounters with men happened while I was on vacation. Men are generally much more focused on sex than women, which has both positive and negative effects.

The positive is the excitement of getting off with someone who really knows how to stimulate a man physically. It is especially good when he is friendly and not ashamed of his sexuality. I wish I had stayed in contact with a few of these guys I met on vacation.

The negative are the guys who are ashamed of their bisexuality. These encounters are rushed and mechanical in nature, often not horrible but definitely less memorable. No real afterglow that lasts for a long time.

 

Agreed. Being comfortable in your skin and with your sexuality is everything. A vacation out of your home area helps as well because it's easy to leave work/home concerns behind so you can just focus on being in the moment. I also find it much easier to step out of my usual roles while on vacation.

 

Nice

 

Best of luck to you.

 

I started considering it when my urges started to grow and I slowly became more in tune with what I liked sexually. Open communication with my s/o also helped in me looking for a fwb.

 

I had the curiosity long before I acted on it. Even when sex was plentiful and good at home I had the desire to suck a guys cock. After sex at home started to diminish I really started to think of it as an option. Finally I thought I would try it just once to see what it was like. That opened a new world to me. I enjoyed it much more than I ever thought I could. I was hooked. It took some time before I let a guy top me, that again was much more enjoyable than I thought it would be.

 

My wife suggested I 'play around'. She was/is so LL as to be asexual but wanted me to get some. I found an older guy, late 60's, who offered a no obligation cock sucking service for all comers. Boy, could he suck a cock or what? I stood there and pumped load after frustrated load straight into his hungry cock sucking mouth. I got to sucking his little cock for him to pay him back. His reaction was amazing.

 

In hindsight I now understand that I was repressing my bisexuality since I stopped playing with my childhood friend. But after striking out with girls and women continually, and after my first girlfriend of three years at 30 (who had taken my virginity) broke up with me for the third time, and broke my heart so badly that I went on a 5 month road trip around Canada and the United States, gay desires spontaneously exploded in my mind one day while driving in Washington state. That night I bought gay porn magazines and had the greatest, most mind-blowing masturbation session in my life in a motel for hours, with the most powerful orgasm of my life.

In the morning I headed straight to the famously gay Castro District in San Francisco, masturbating while driving to the open gay magazines on the passenger seat all the way down. The night that I arrived, I found myself in a gay striptease theatre with a man's cock an inch from my face. It was both surreal and exciting beyond my imagination. That started my bisexual, mostly gay life.

 

Or you could take the ferry over to N.Wildwood, NJ where Im on my own too.

 

I think I’ve always been bi, had thoughts growing up, they were strong especially when I was drunk. But I ignored them, when the wife started to with hold sex cause she wasn’t interested anymore I looked around but again never acted on them. This past year the urges grew stronger and I finally got with a guy as I posted elsewhere. Now I’m looking forward to doing it again. I’m getting together again in a few days with the same guy and hope to experience more.

 

That's a possibility...

 

Started very sporadically still full of internalized homophobia in my early 20s. Believe it or not I'm still waiting to act on it, but now I'm not ashamed to admit I want to!

 

Yahoo messenger, I would talk with guys about how I wanted to please someone or the thoughts of it turned me on.
Had a top that lived in the same town who would
Message me a lot and finally talked me into putting something on for him and coming over as he wanted to see what I looked like for real instead of on a cam

 

Being bi kinda started as a fetish for me. Might still just be that…I’m not sure. I love watching bi/gay porn. Just a little bit ago I was watching a video of a guy getting topped and I want to feel that soo bad. But other times I think it’s just a fantasy. My wife has never really been into sex but 10 years ago it was almost nonexistent then 6 years ago it was gone. She still tries to insinuate it’ll happen again but I’m so screwed up in the head from it who knows. Being bi even if it is more of a fantasy gives me an escape from a complete lack of intimacy in my life. A casual friend with benefits is definitely an option at some point though.

 

It is worth considering. Pleasure being a quick phone call away definitely has a lot of appeal. Quick, easy, dramaless pleasure whenever you want it. Getting sucked off by someone who genuinely loves cock will give you almost a religious experience.