When "daddies" still seek "daddies"......

Same here. I've always been attracted to older men.

 

.......sexual-appeal wise, I would guess that many men (at least to fellows like us) are like a fine wine....they get better with age......

"Live long and prosper"

 

I am 68 but I actively seek out older or similar age guys on line or at the sauna. Although I am always open to younger men.

 

It's always good to be "open", regarding the age(s) of your partners.

:Live long and prosper"

 

Going all the way back to my teenage years, I've always found myself drawn to guys that are older than myself, and this hasn't changed even though I'm in my 40s now.
I guess you could say I've always had a "daddy fetish."

 

I hear you, man.

I'm 66 and STILL have a STRONG fetish for men my age or older.......maybe some men are like a fine wine....they get better with age!

 

Age is just a number; attraction is eye of the beholder stuff and isn't all about what you can see with your eyes... and you shouldn't trust them. I'm 68 and all guys are, at the least, interesting and, yes, more so if I can suck them and they don't have a problem sucking me. Romance is nice but not a requirement but sex outside of a relationship is, in fact, a sin so requiring a relationship in a situation that is also a sin has always struck me as being very odd. Almost everyone wants to be loved, respected and treated decently and we are tasked with the goal of being able to find it, obtain it, and then keep it for as long as we can and live happily ever after... and the fairy tale doesn't stand up against the reality of things. The reality says that you can find these things with anyone, male or female (or however they see themselves) and it's not that the bigots are afraid to admit that we have feelings: It's that the way we can feel toward men in particular doesn't fit their view of the way it's supposed to be.

If they're afraid of anything, it's that life doesn't work the way they were told it does and they're the ones who have been living a lie. I suck dick and love doing it and it doesn't make me any less of a man than the straight guy who believes that men shouldn't suck cock and, as such, failing to accept the obvious truth: Men suck cock... and you don't have to be gay to do it and like everyone wants to believe. I'm not sure how many men I've heard say that they'd never so some shit like that - but then, they get older and... guess what they're into now? Again, it's not about being attracted to men or liking men like that but the sex itself is pretty damned attractive and anything else is... gravy but not, again, a hard requirement.

We are not sliding backwards; we never moved forward from those behaviors to begin with while citing being enlightened and civilized. It is, at best, hubris or being in abject denial that the world works differently than the way we've been told it's supposed to; I live in a world where I can look at a guy and think that I'd love to be in a 69 with him and I should find out if he'd be interested because... I'm horny - what other reason do I need? Age, such as it is, means nothing but a level of maturity means a lot and so does a level of intelligence that is more enlightened than the way we're behaving about this on the whole.

And... desire. Do you really want to? Of a mind to not put a lot of limitations on your pleasure or ability to please? Understand that if you don't mind, it never matters? That and it's never about what someone else thinks or believes: It's what you think and believe is best for yourself and willing to pursue it in a world that, frankly, isn't going to like you all that much because... you're not like they are. We make this way too harder than it already is or should be; we make it more complicated and less simple like, oh, what does a 68-year-old guy like me have in common with a 20-year-old guy? We're both guys (duh, right?) and we both like having our dicks sucked (and I only know of one guy who doesn't); and, my, my, we're both cocksuckers! That should, in theory, get us with our mouths on each other but, again, we make this harder than it has to be and... I need more coffee.

 

Older guys seeking other older guys-older guys seeking younger guys-younger guys seeking older guys------regarding sexual attractions (or just plain LUST!) it appears that AGE has NOTHING to do with anything----it is what TURNS YOU ON that counts!

 

This discussion is getting this fellow here to thinking about how long a guy (regardless of sexuality) can feel "lusty" and "horny" in his "twilight" years; if a guy is still in reasonably good health-could "lust" and "horniness" be still factors? A good friend (RIP) who resided in Florida was 93 when he passed (he was gay) and still-despite his age-was still "getting pretty frisky" on at least a weekly basis-with three or four older gay/bi buds---in this fellow's case-age did NOT "cool down" his libido!

 

They say that men hit their sexual prime in their 20s and it's all downhill from there and to me, the older I got, the hornier I got and the more sex I needed and, yeah, being bisexual sure did help toward this worthy goal. I'm 68; my health right now is kinda so-so... and I'm horny as fuck and very lusty... because why wouldn't I be? And, um, I'm not dead yet; to me, that'll be the only time when I'm not going to be horny and lusty.

I recall chatting with a guy who, incidentally, was 68 at the time I was talking to him. He said that he had had prostate cancer, had it removed, and after that, he rarely got hard and even rarely ejaculated when he could get hard but he said that there was nothing wrong with his mouth or his ass and he welcomed any man to come and make use of his mouth and ass. My only "regret" was being too busy to go check him out but I loved his attitude about sex and getting older and, hell, if my dick stops working, um, my mouth and ass still does... and I see how and why that makes sense when your sex drive is still alive and kicking.

 

KDaddy23: Another great post------ Yours truly will turn 67 in a few weeks (geeze!); and (although I go "solo" as you know) I STILL get horny as hell (particularly late night); I get rock-hard and drool lube like a faucet; years of HOT (and kinky!) guy/guy fantasies (and I can't forget all the hot ass photos I gleaned off the 'net--as well as other hot guy/guy scenarios!) always get this guy firing off at least eight or nine good hard spurts! Outside of a hernia-I guess this fellow is in fairly decent shape for a guy in his late 60's I can be out running errands and all it takes to start the "launch sequence" is to see a guy with a nice round butt-just BEGGING to be spanked-eaten-and FUCKED-------once I get back to the house-well-------let's just say I can't wait to take the "situation into hand"!" and "beat the bishop"!

 

No matter how old we get, men still need sex even if it means turning to each other for it and more so when women just give up having sex and if you don't like it, it sucks to be you - and you'd better not go out and get laid with someone else! Older men are like, "Fuck it; what the bitch don't know won't hurt her..." and they get with their FWB to suck and fuck to their hearts content.

And we can always masturbate. Like that guy said, his dick no longer worked but his mouth and ass worked just fine.

 

KDaddy23: Right on brother! You said it right!

 

There's no shame in going from being the guy who was slinging the dick to being the guy others sling the dick on because... it's all sex.

 

Well said-for sure!

 

If-say-you are a guy nearing the big "nine-oh"-are still in reasonably good health-----and STILL able to "throw a bone"-hell-don't let it go to waste------SHARE!!!!

 

Contrary to popular belief-----I guess you CAN teach "an old dog" new (or-perhaps-not so new!)"tricks" after all----------(!!)

 

i turned 60 late last year .. I have a regular gay lover 3 years older and a regular gay married couple about 5 years younger .. i enjoy men in that 50 - 70 range and they enjoy me

 

i share my bone at every opportunity