I remember the first time I had heard about and saw anal sex in a porn, after that I wanted to try it but it was the early 1980's and we lived in the bible belt, so anal was way taboo!!! but still I wanted to try it, and like allot of people I didn't know how to ask my GF or tell her I wanted to try this, so I keep this desire to myself for a long time until one day she was cleaning some stuff up and she had something in her hand and she ask me "what do you want me to do with this? let me guess? stick in up my ass right?" and I said "No, I have something else for that"! She gave me a puzzled look and I went to go take a shower and to get ready for work, we both worked nights, so when we got home, we did the same O same O sex, which was great!!! and right after that we were talking in bed, when she said "You remember earlier today when I asked you where you wanted me to put something and I said let me guess? up my ass right? and you said you had something else for that, you meant your dick, didn't you?" and I said "Yes" and then she said "okay, I'll do that with you" We tried but we didn't know what the hell we were doing, we didn't know anything at the time, it was some years later before we learn that you use lube and allot of it, well it's a big part of our sex life now
No not really,but after we learn what we needed (lube) and then after her 3rd or 4th time she said she loved it
Anal was around way before the 1980’s it was just the onset of porn that exposed it more to the world.
I either read it somewhere or I was told that anal sex was performed as a form of contraception between couples. Quite how true this is I don't know but it makes sense I guess.
That is very true. if you listen to some old blues tunes, they will refer to "Your Back Door Man" it is refer to anal sex
Can't say I'm a fan of the blues so have never heard that line. If I happen across any blues music I might just listen out for it though.
My first wife and I learned about anal sex in The Joy of Sex. I did't care much for it because it hurt her. We only did it a few times a year when she really wanted it. Later in life I dated a woman who preferred anal sex and earned to like it. When I discovered my bisexuality, I became a top.
There are ancient Peruvian clay vessels that depict anal sex between men and women. One theory being it was a way to enjoy sex without pregnancy.
I am not sure when the first Anal intercourse was preformed But as i know it even this the first that i heard of it being dome was way back in the Roman days were here. But for myself the first time was when 17 years old , my first G/F apparently she use to read adult books ,
The 80's were great. My first wife and I were married in 86' but while dating in 84' she agreed to experiment with anal sex. It didn't go well the first couple times as I hurt her but we learned a lot of lube is the trick. Well, she became an anal whore, she loved it and wanted it a lot. She'd have her vaginal orgasm and then suck me hard again to have me enter her ass for her second orgasm and said her anal orgasms were far more intense.
