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Jealousy pure and simple. If your boy friend is of the same age group as you, I'd put money on it.
When I was that age and married to my first wife I had a VERY bad case of it.
When we split up I swore to myself that emotion was not part of my life ever again.

 

Are you both male?

 

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MamaKCita, let have lunch at the end of the universe, your buying of course.