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Hey how's it going? My life is great! My dad has lung cancer which spread to his brain and his lymph nodes, my husband and I are separated and hate eachother, I only have my kids half time .... my lawyer sucks but I have my own place now which is super cool... its in a really bad area of the the city but I like it cause it has hardwood floors, i basically quit smoking pot and only drink maybe a glass or two at the most. Weird huh?

 

Merry Christmas

 

Heavy load there, Jess I'm sorry.

Well, dave's gut exploded and he nearly died. That was just a couple days after my teenage stepson came to live with us. He's actually pretty great, but getting him set up and off the couch required a visit from my sister in law. Which...ouch. She also managed to get in a fight with my nightmarish drunken bully of a neighbor on the day I had to drive her to the airport. My panic got so bad I had to start going to therapy. I have to admit, people said i'd love it and they're COMPLETELY incorrect. It's like mental rape. And she's recommended marriage counseling. Dave's into it, but the thought of unleashing ten years of whining on my husband makes me feel Ill.

Joeys starting preschool, for a disgusting cost. Kai isn't in her art school any more. Tyler dropped out of tumbing and has girls over nearly constantly. Some are really annoying. Tys pretty awesome, I know he's getting away with something but I dint know what. So that rules out the really big scary stuff.

I think I've list all the muscle tone I've ever had, am entering into menoause way too early and my mom says I have The Gout. I don't mind the muscle mass going away. Now when I lose weight I won't look like Olga, the east German power lifter and horseless sharecropper.

 

Wow.!! What An Uplifting Thread, And To Think I Thought Today Was

Near Perfect.

Tis 9-04am Here, The Sun Is Shining, All The Birds Are Singing, There Is

The Distant Hum Of An Aeroplane, Glen Is Enjoying The First Coffee Of

The Day, After Emerging From His Beauty Sleep, And Was Just Thinking

To Himself "Life Is Sweet"...

Then He Read This Thread....



Cheers Glen.

 

Wow.

 

wow Jess... I'm sorry to hear all that
and Kc you too
man life's a total bummer

I'm not gonna say anything about my life...

hope things get better for you ladies

 

It's kinda funny. It's not that bad. Despite all the dog chewing of the furniture, kids fighting, nasty neighbor with the stupid, overpriced shrubbery and feeling like crap we're having fun playing games.

 

so.... does this mean we can be lovers now?

 

Yes Boog we can be lovers. I n fact I will be lovers with pretty much anyone who asks right about now. I am also available as a live in lover for a couple in colorado.

I heard about Dave, didnt realize it was that serious KC ...

Life is shitty but still good Glen Glen,
it's really cool getting to know yourself again and sometimes it takes a series of shitfalls to get you into position.

I missed you guys.

 

i don't believe you have to hate anyone to avoid people who inspire unpleasant emotions.

 

that's what I'm working towards ^

I just found out yesterday that my dad only has a couple of weeks maybe a month or two... they are stopping treatment. cancer has spread all over.

Shitty stuff.

 

so what the hell are you doing here listening to strangers?...turn off the damn computer and go spend every day with him.

 

great advice and that's what I'm doing BBad, just wanted some sympathy and to know what's up with the rest of you... what's new online? is that too vaugue?

 

:grouphug:

chat is where it's at.. or at least me.

 

I died twice.

 

I'm going to take my dog out in the country and take my mind off the stuff I've just read in this thread. Bye!

 

hmm well that has to be the most fucked up thing i've read all night...

i've felt unhappy for the past couple of months (relationship crap) but i have no reason to talk after reading this...

 

Don't worry about us..focus on yourself and your Dad

trust me on this..you won't regret it

 

DAMN, DAMN AND DAMN! So very sorry to hear all this Warmhanded! So sad bout your dad and all.

and KC, wow, hope things get better for you too and hope that Dave is doing much better.

As for me... well lemmee see, had a 4-5 inch staghorn kidney stone removed in November, got home, got double pneumonia. That sucked worse than the surgery. Oh and when your surgeon says minimally invasive.. tell them to kiss your ass, cuz they are lying. . Felt like I literally got ran over by a damned train.

Had a stent from my kidney to my bladder for six weeks, once my hot doctor removed that. (was a very uncomfortable procedure) I got infected and had to have iv's for three days.

Havent really regained all my strength back but working on it.

Still working on that stupid gang banging homicide case that we have had in the office since 2007. That takes up a lot of time re-reading the hundreds of police reports etc.

Glad to see random thoughts back up and running.

 

nothing. the leafs still fucking suck.