What's it like to be straight?

Hi, I'm a girl who likes girls and I've been wondering...What's it like to be straight? Like, what do straight girls do? What do they talk about? Boys?

I'm 20, I've been out since I was 17, and I've always known I was different, and I'm interested to know what straight girls do. What's acceptable? Like, if I held my straight friends hand, is that acceptable? If you're straight, and you had a friend who was gay, where would you draw the line? What do you straight folk do?

Sounds stupid right? That's how I feel asking this, but I want to know...Where is the line drawn?

 

straight people act like gay people who prefer to sleep with the opposite sex.

 

I'm a guy who has been the only man around women and would like to know more too. What they have said around me has been amazing. Straight women love to talk about very personal issues about themselves and others. This includes how someone got pregnant or who has toe fungus. They can also talk about their bodes, like when they are ovulating. I know that they talk about how hot guys are sometimes, but I am not privy to many of those. Then for the rest of the time that you know a person, you know a very personal "secret" that changes your opinion of them. All because they confided in a female friend who then told their guy.

What I always wonder is if they ever talk intimately about sex. Like how often they have it and what makes them orgasm. I don't think that they usually do, but they seem to get so close that I just have to wonder.

 

Aw girl we aren't that different. You're attracted to girls, I'm attracted to guys.
Straight people of the same sex can hold hands, I've done it and it's accepted.
As for what I talk about-- as much as anyone else. I'm not much of a politics person at all, so I don't talk about that. I talk about current events, the weather, stuff about friends and family, funny shit, clothes, hot guys, school, blah blah blah.

 

Doesnt really matter what they talk about, they just have to keep talking, otherwise they'll lose balance, fall over and bump their heads

 

if they're girls of course.

 

because of the illusion of lesbianism

so it is, the circle of life.

 

Straight guys can hold each others hands if its too help each others knuckles from dragging on the ground, or if they want to try walking upright.


I've decided this is going to be a breeder bashing thread. Whats it like to be straight? That reminds me, theres a new planet of the apes movie coming out

 

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If i knew a lesbian, and she held my hand, I would probably think its a bit weird? Its the equivalent to a male friend,that I'm not attracted to, holding my hand right? .. so i wouldnt hold their hand. Just because i think its sending the wrong signals. :-/

I link my friends tho

 

Me and my gay BFF hold hands, flirt, but because we've been friends for 5 years. We talk about everything. Me and my straight girl-friends talk about willies.

 

If you want to hear what straight guys talk about, you should post up a pic. You'll be hearing from all of us.

 

Here's my problem --

It is perfectly acceptable for straight girls to hold hands and cuddle and spoon and kiss each other on the cheek, etc.

If you're a lesbian and you have a straight friend and the two of you act like lesbians together (i.e. hold hands, cuddle, etc. etc.) and straight friend finds out you REALLY DO like girls, suddenly you're a bad person or you're a pervert or you're gross. There's some kind of a double standard.

I guess what I really would like to know is what should a friendship between two straight girls feel like? I feel a strong emotional connection with one of my friends who is straight and I often wonder if my feeling is TOO STRONG to not be a physical attraction?

Where is the line drawn?!?

 

You are telling us that you have a moral issue there? You are afraid of CORRUPTING her?

Sorry, no such thing. Everyone is responsible for themselves. Just respect what the other persons want.

 

Sounds like we have something in common.

Seriously, no different other than who we have sex with.

 

Well I never understood women but as a gay I know not to advance at all unless youre pretty sure that they are open to new things. Oh I was friends with a lesbian once and she was pretty cool we would do nice friendly things like cuddle a bit when it was cold outside on breaks or hug now and again. Heh people thought it was weird that I was so friendly with her cause she was an out lesbian but whatever. Too bad she moved far away.... But anyways my point is that I think women take friendly touching much less seriously than straight guys. It just usually an okay thing for women to touch each other most of the time.

 

Girls are hot and pussy's good

 

It basically means I can kiss my girlfriend in public and not have people stare at me.
It means that I won't have protesters show up at "my" bars
It means I don't have to "come out" of any closet
It means people won't tell me I'm "going to hell" for loving someone.
It means alot to gay person, as I've had it explained to me.. but I really never think about those things otherwise.

Peace be to my GLB brothers and sisters. :2thumbsup:

 

Nothing wrong with mackerel snappers.... :afro: