What would you do if your BF liked You Tube more than sex?

My Bf watches you tube about 15 hours a day when hes not at school and when I want to have sex hes to busy watching yet another episode of whatever on you tube...GRRRRR....I have sex on my mind 24hrs a day and he knew this when he met me...so how do I break the you tube abuse I am getting?:devil:

 

Its just sad because on day when he cant get it up anymore he will think back to all the times he turned it down for useless shit....GRRRRR!

 

Sadly you are not alone in your frustration. All of us probably hear friends talk regularly about how they perceive that their partner spends more time with internet, facebook, youtube, texting, etc that they would like. It has become a big part of the instant gratification/no consequence world that has evolved.

When one person wants human contact be it conversation, companionship or sex and the other wants to be mesmerized by a screen and keypad it definitely stresses a relationship. Since you are referring to him as your boyfriend, then the cost of worst-case is not as bad as if he were your husband.

I assume that you have tried to talk to him. Regardless, try to talk again. Make sure he knows that you are not enjoying this and that you want/need more. If you love him and want to make your life with him then work as hard as you need to fix this. If not, then you need to move on and find someone that shares your interests and makes your world better simply because he is in it. Life is too short to sit in the same room with someone and feel all alone.

Good luck - hope things work out.

 

best thing to do is climb down and unzip him and while hes enjoying his you tub u start sucking him and make him happy with u too . dont pressure him make it fun for him

 

15 hours a day? Really?

And how many times a month do you guys have sex? Cause if you're gonna say it's every other day but that's not enough that's different then if you say once a month... you know what I mean...

But I'd say, just start blowing him off to do other things ... when he wants to do anything with you, just be busy doing something else. idk.

 

Find out what he's watching! It must be damn interesting!

 

This is actually quite good advice right here. I vote for this option.

 

Cut The Cord To His Puuuuter, Problem Solved...:2thumbsup:



Cheers Glen.

 

I never got into YouTube thankfully. I just can't understand how people can watch videos of other idiots. Music and sports I can understand, even car crashes. But not the rest.

 

What if it's hip forums?

C/S,
Rev J

 

Post your own video, of you with another guy. Then hope he finds it.

 

Thats a good ideal but it a laptop so not always plugged in...lol

 

Well to sum up so of the answers that you all have given me which I thank you very much for the help, but hid computer stays in his lap and so the blow job is out, I dont have any other guys brave enough to do a video to put on you tube with me i mean I would in a heart beat that would be fun Im sure and NO we hardly ever have sex any more and I have to take care of myself so much till I wonder why I am with him in the first place...GRRRRR...WHY ME? Im not that bad looking i guess and i keep in shape and anything goes when it comes to sex and I mean anything so whats the problem....you tell me?

 

You may have stumbled on the reason why those forums on here are so busy!!!!!

 

You need to set down beside him. Tell him there's a song you're interested in, but can't think of it. Tell him to type in: You don't know what you got, until it's gone. If he can't take the hint. I'd say I'm out of here.