What Turns You Off?

panties with skid marks.

 

what? those are my best selling items.

 

When I've spend good money and time on lingerie and within 2 seconds of getting heated they want to take them off.

Certain words. Tits, asshole etc. During play.

Slippery floors or furniture that makes it hard to stay positional in the correct posture.

TV on in the background.

Darkness. I like mood lighting, lava lamps, mood misters etc.

Being asked what to do next. Not having the confidence to just manoeuvre me into a more favourable position without asking.

 

But what about if that TV in the background is replaced by a Wagnerian Opera and your partner becomes Brunnhilde's Seigfried.

 

I'm usually the one doing the singing.

 

That sounds dangerous. What about if Wotan does not like your voice and all your Siegfried's have to conquer a ring of eternal fire for the next 100 years.

 

Loud, boisterous, drunk women

 

if i'm horny enough, nothing.

 

hillary clinton

 

Oh...

 

A bed partner who insists on interpreting a question or two as lack of confidence

 

well if the question is "wouldn't you rather be doing this with someone who knows what he's doing?" then i would understand that interpretation.

 

Arrogance.

 

Lol, is that you Neo Queen? Loud drunk and boisterous?

 

Didn't thought of that because. .. no one asks that

I could come up with questions that would make it even easier to understand Doesn't mean its always the best way to keep your mouth shut and keep going at it, no matter if 'it' is working for both, just because you fear the other might think you have a confidence issue.

 

Was that a shot at me? That turns me off.

I just find in the heat of the moment "can I do this, can I do that" just a no no. Just do. Especially when you're letting someone know you're submissive, I don't want the control, to me that's point of making it clear that I'm submissive.

 

Sawdust !

 

I'm with The Irm.

Too many questions during sex is such a mood killer. I mean, when your with someone for the first time, okay. But if we've been together enough times and you still don't know what I like...meh

 

Sand isn't too great either.