well, their is this guy i like he is my cousin's boyfriend's brother... n when i am with him i can tell he looks at me when i am not looking at him...then i look at him n he sorta looks away sometimes >> also, i went over to his house for a party ..we ended watching a movie n i wuz next to him ... i started playing with his hand n touching his hand n did not move it off or anything ... he wuz also looking for a way to touch mine like comparing hand and wrist size .. >> he plays n hits me a lot which he does with his brother too....but he acts differently when we are around other people he usually does this when we are alone !! i am really confused can u all plz help me ?? i feel like he likes me, but i am getting mixed signals !!
Here is the thing about guys. They think it isn't cool to show affection around their friends. Just say something to him. Also it is always gonna be different being alone with someone. I mean its not like you can start fucking someone around your friends.
You may show interest in him by flirting and playing like you have been doing, but remember to let him do most of the work. I've found that men like to hunt: if the prey is too easy they'll move on to the next one. Always show a little less you're into him than he shows he's into you. If you don't you'll probably come off as easy and/or needy/clingy.