To make a long story short, there's one girl I know who I've been talking too & who said she'd tell me when she was ready for a relationship as she had just gotten out of a long relationship in which she was abusd. Then there's this other girl who I think looks kinda good & she's also nice as hell & could be easy to be with. Then there's another girl who is a sister of someone who used to be my friend that I want to plug but her attitude makes me not want to talk to her at least 90% of the time. Who do I go after?
Get a piece of paper, write down positives and negative for each chick, count the total of each and pick the most favorable one.
Well, I did it & the first girl I mentioned is the one who scored the highest & I couldn't even find a negative thing about her. So, I really want to go with her & the fact is, I could very well love this girl. How could I get her to be trusting enough to get into another relationship?
Man, I really hate when people say that. Yeah, I'm 13 now, & on Friday I'll be 14, now what? Seriously, if that's all you're going to say, don't post in threads asking for advice.
I been strokin my hungry cock to chicks and fantasies alike, so fuck that bullshit. And fuck the check list too. You want confidence man? Then Seriously, FUCK THE CHECKLIST. All the good thoughts will warp in your mind, plus the paper is right there for a qucik clean up. Then start kickin' down doors. The only reason she says wait, is because the incredible void after the so-called "abuse". She needs attention. Be hot on it!
I think I get what he's trying to say... Maybe you need to just decide and make a bold move. Not sex, but something to show you're not giving up, and are committed. Stubbornston3r can correct me if that's an inaccurate interpretation.
I wish I new about these forums when I was 13. Would of helped me with so much. I think you should go with what you want to do not what we say. You really should know who your attracted to the most/want a relationship with. In saying that the advice so far seems to be pretty good.
Well, I'm still open to date others & she said today she's still not ready to get into another relationship so I'll probably just get to know her better while also dating other girls. It's not cheating as we're not in a REAL relationship. I think this is the best move for now.
I agree. Just do what you feel. This next piece of advice may sound strange, but if you ever feel tempted to cheat on her and you don't want to, masturbate to the girl you sort of wanted, and you will lose interest in her the next time you see her. That's what I did when I was 13-14. At that age boys and girls are fickle and change their minds all the time, and that will help. Cheers
