Okay. When i have sex with my boyfriend and he goes deep inside of me or rather when we do it doggy style i cant stand the dick being inside of me, i stop him all the time. or when we do it missionary and he positions my legs on top of his shoulders i cant handle that feeling you get in your stomach. i dont understand, girls say it feels good..it feels uncomfortable to me, and i just want to cum! so really, im getting nothing out of sex, and i hate that. when i got eaten out before that was the best, because i really did have like 3 orgasms in a row..but my boyfriend doesnt really know how to eat out..so i get nothing about of sex, and that feeling is just crazy. i had it with my ex boyfriend he was a 7 incher {i think}...and it would reach my tummy and i couldnt handle i would gasp for air..and i moan and i just start going wild like my head cant stay still and i HAVE to stop them. what is this? and is there anyone out there that can help me or is having the same problem?????
maybe he is too big for you. even tho 7inches shouldnt hurt you.. the same thing used to happen with my ex bf in those exact positions because he was so big and i just had to tell him that we couldnt do those positions. I kinda agree with weedhopper tho cuz now that I look back, I dont think he knew what he was doing. My bf now is not as large as my ex but still very big and we can do those positions just fine. I think its cuz my ex didnt do it right, cuz those are my fav positions now
if nothing works...maybe you should just go see a doctor. maybe they can tell you if there is something you can do or if there is a reason that it is so uncomfortable for you. good luck hun!!!!
that is a very good point pansy... the vagina does shift when aroused, the cervix moves down and back a bit i think? but yeah, it changes position a bit when aroused, so definitely don't forget the foreplay. also listen to the others' advice too... i've had that problem before, and now i'm t hinking it might be just that.. not enough foreplay, and not the size of the guy's penis.
nb it has really nothing to do with size but with position and your ability to verbally or non-verbally EXCHANGE what feels good for both of you.
I agree with Pansy. It sounds like you aren't getting warmed up enough. Think about it. Women push 9 pound, 21 inch babies out of their vaginas.
yeah, out of ... not into.. its a little different. I think shes saying she hates it when he pushes on her cervix, and fuck it is rather painful when it happens
its probably that ur tight and he is big.. its shouldnt be uncomfortable, but i know the feeling. its like a cramp in ur stomach... try more lube?
Yeah, and just how pleasant of an experience is this? She can take a deep dicking, just doesn't feel good Communicate with him sex is much more pleasurable when he only uses part of his penis to penetrate you
OK but lets not forget the sex/love making is for both parties, and like some women need direct clit stimulation, some men, like myself, need direct helmet stimulation, and I get it the best when I smack the tip of my cock against my fiancee's cervix... She tells me it hurts, but when she knows I am about to cum she lets me pound away, and god DAMN it feels good... I cuddle with her, and/or make sure I give her "hers" before I begin my assault on her cervix... Oh Gawd, I got to go take care of this soon... I still got 1 hour of work left
he's fucking you too soon...tell him what feels good. A nice hard deep fuck feels amazing but you have to be warmed up properly. If you can have sex with him...you can talk about it. ..make it erotic even and it might help you warm up.
