What stops you from trying sex with another man?

I require video chat before hooking up. I have no problem saying no to people who can't read or are flakes. I've been with 20/30 guys over the years and never had a problem. I state up front oral only, no drinking and no drugs. Lots of guys don't even get to video chat stage because they ask if I do anal or smoke pot or if they can drink. Nope! You fail!

 

Everyone worries about this, and the solution is simple: Use condoms and oral dams if eating pussy or ass. It's a pain in the ass for a lot of men and more so when condom use makes being spontaneous almost impossible because who carries condoms with them? I know that with some guys, a condom will murder an erection trying to put it on and can ruin the mood and everything else and definitely when you stick with your requirement to cover that dick up. Like the women said in the 80s and when HIV showed up on our shores, "No glove, no love!"

You use condoms and the only thing you're bringing home is yourself. Do not make the mistake some guys have made and think that just because you didn't let him cum inside you makes you safe; the moment his dick went into your mouth or your ass, you run the risk since his pre-cum will carry any infectious shit.

 

Great response!! I needed it straight like that

 

This is one of those "duh" kind of things that makes me wonder why this doesn't pop into a guy's head first and foremost. Worried or not sure about him? Condoms. Stop by a convenience store and get some. If there's a 'downside" to this, it's making sure your lady doesn't find your stash of condoms and starts asking questions you do not want to answer.

 

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Lol!!! You ain’t wrong

 

Hahahah! Pulsating rack

 

I could never suck a man's cock with a condom on it, can't do it. Luckily my promiscuous days are over and have reduced the number of cocks I suck on to the hand-full of guys I've known for many years.

 

What’s your favorite part of SC?

 

I did it a couple of times and hated it. All I could taste and feel was whatever the condom was made out of plus the lubricant that made my mouth go numb - then I found out that they put the spermicide in the lubricant and the spermicide will make your mouth go numb. It just made me be very, very careful about who's dick I was sucking.

 

How is that site?

 

Did you ever try unused or flavored condoms?
The point LowHangers brought up is most guys won't do oral with a condom on, either for giving or receiving. I am sadly one of those guys where erections were not the greatest with a condom on. I have a wide base, but average length, so bigger condoms were like an elephants trunk.
I've had condoms break on me at least 3 times with women. Thank God the one gal took Plan B birth control and then got on the pill after testing. For men after the fact, that would be PEP, if you weren't on PrEP. I think you have to go to a walkin clinic or ER to get on PEP to prevent hiv. But you have 72 hours to do so, the sooner the better.

Much better to be on PrEP daily. Or the on demand dosing of 2 pills at least 2 hours before you have unprotected sex, and one pill the next two days! If you keep having sex, there is a simple plan for that,keep taking 1 pill daily until you finish having unprotected sex, then 1 pill per day for the next 2 days after you stopped.
On demand doesn't work safely for women, they need daily dosage.
My doc is pissing me off, dragging his feet on PrEP. Grr!

 

The flavored ones tasted like shit thanks to the artificial flavor and sweeteners. Unlubricated ones taste like whatever they make them out of. The main thing for me - other than the fucked-up taste - is I couldn't feel the dick in my mouth; I felt detached from it and they're moaning and groaning and cumming in the condom and I feel the pulses but it's not the same as it'd be if the dick wasn't all wrapped up. And I'm not sucking cum out of a condom. Hell the fuck no.

So, the choices were get used to the awful taste, numb mouth, other unpleasantness or do my due diligence to make sure he's clean. I know that it's... illogical to suck cock without a condom but "in my defense" I'll say that those of us who suck dick knows that it's better without the condom but safer with it.

I've been with several women who said, "No glove, no love!" and I've tugged it on, only to have them rip it off and many of them saying, "I can't feel you with that damned thing on!" As far as I know, I didn't get them pregnant. I've eaten pussy using an oral dam and it didn't taste or feel lgood and I felt disconnected from the pussy and they've told me, "Get rid of that damned thing and eat me!" The really fucked-up part about not eating pussy with a dam is that chances are damned good it's how I got the HPV virus that ultimately gave me cancer.

I just can't point to a woman and say, "Oh, she did this to me!" because I've eaten a lot of pussy unprotected and "a lot" is a gross understatement. And before anyone asks, yes: I'll suck cock and eat pussy without the protection even if such a decision, logically, doesn't make sense.