Is it appropriate to go for a girl my ex had flirted before? My ex is with someone else already and I think I also like the girl she used to go out with. Should I go or not?
What's the problem, hun? If you're not with anyone else, and she's not with anyone else, then go for it. What the hell does it matter that you've both, in the past, separately been with the same third person? That's past. Over. Done with. No longer relevant.
I was pretty hang-up with my ex for a long time, although we haven't have contact for more than 10 months now. We broke up January this year. I was trying to move on although I still think about her most of the time. 3 months after our break up I learned that she was going out on dates and I was curious to check who were her new girls so I went on to check who were they. Too many, all of them she met online. She was really on the market. Last August, I came to check her page again and I saw that she's pretty tight with this gorgeous girl. I thought she was her girlfriend already. I've already resented the fact that my "replacement" is more gorgeous than me. But I have to admit, she's indeed gorgeous. I went about ignoring them the past months with the thought that they are already a couple. A week ago, I checked again her page and there I saw that she's in a relationship with another girl. I was shock and I'm not sure where it came from but I immediately thought of the gorgeous girl. What happened with her? Why she isn't her girlfriend? They are still friends and still have good times together so I thought they were never together. The only reason I could think of is because this gorgeous girl is too busy with school and has no time for love. Besides, she broke up with her ex probably 8 months ago. Maybe my ex really fell in love with another or that she could not wait to be in a relationship, Idon't know. I don't care. What I care about is this gorgeous girl. Perhaps I like this girl. That night I've found out that she isn't my ex's gf, I spent hours checking her profiles. Literally stalked her online. it's been a week since I have this obsession. Now my question is, would it ruin any future friendship I might have with my ex?
