My child's father and I broke up in December after over 2 years of dating and we have a 15 month old. He isn't really romantic, we don't kiss and he doesn't last long in bed and it just sucks. It's complicated between us because we're not in a relationship but we still have sex and IM.still hoping.he'll change and give me everything I want in a relationship such as: romance, good long sex, for him to do more with his life and to be more in touch with his feelings and to.make me feel.special and beautiful. Things aren't going too well with us lately because there's this guy at work and he calls.me gorgeous, compliments me all the time and is so aggressive and funny and he has some of the qualities I wish my ex had. He wants to have sex with me and I want it too but I don't want to ruin things with my ex. We love each other, I want to marry him someday but IM tired of feeling unwanted and waiting for changes. Does anyone have any much needed advice?