well in the dreams i break apart theyre clothes with my hands while they seem scared and i start touching theyre breasts
It may just be fantasy imagination or that you have a lot of anger and resentment, probably the latter. Are you a bully? The female represents all that is feminie: receptivity, openness, innocence, earthiness, etc. At the deepest level you may be rebelling against what you perceive as weaknesses within yourself, perhaps feeling frustrated that others see you as powerless, helpless, impotent. The fear that you elicit may be a mirror of your own fears.