What makes you drawn to someone?

Instantly attracted and wanting to know more about them? What specific qualities do they have? If it's an 'it' factor, rather than a clearly defined characteristic; what specifics make 'it'?

 

Their symphony...

if this doesn't make sense, it's okay, but I absorb their entire existence and know whether or not I like what I hear..

 

I dont knoww...but its always magnificent.

 

kind eyes. kind eyes all the way. if i can look into someones eyes and see how kind they are, that does it for me. friendship established.

as for the it factor, someone who is willing to help the people around them grow.

 

Kindness and warmth, a smile, or if the person is shy, a warm, non-condescending shyness. Calmness and subtlety, but not indifference. Someone who says very little yet says a whole lot. Most important of all, someone who is genuine. Genuine people melt my very soul.

 

I met someone like this very recently. We shared a few moments that lasted about 5 seconds but they still resonate in my heart. I sincerely hope I meet her again, shes a co-worker.

 

a sincere smile and general interest in hearing me blab on and on about useless crap

 

I don't think I have ever been Instantly attracted and wanting to know more about somebody.
I may have been Instantly atracted and wanted to have sex with them, however.
I'd probably not really want to get to know them though.

I'm drawn to people that are drawn to me.

 

I am drawn to intelligence all the way

but if were speaking on general physical terms eyes and smile

you can tell tons thru both of those mediums

 

It's so funny how different everyone's articulation of desirable qualities is.
I wonder if this proves not everyone can like you.
You know those people, everyone seems to like? What do you think it is about them that makes them so likable? What makes someone likable?

 

Humongous Boobs

 

The people Ive known where everyone seemed to really like them are generally sociopathic with a lot of charisma

They use flattery a lot, tell people what they want to hear, and are upbeat and positive. This rubs off on the people around them, makes them feel good. So then they associate the person with that

 

Or that

 

character and personality

 

Sarcasm. If I know someone is a sarcastic asshole, they understand me without taking everything personal.

Unfortunately I also just fall in love easy, especially with people who seem to make me happy.... I"m sure I have an unhealthy addiction to love.... I've already come at peace with being completely fucking crazy, so it's cool...

 

having a soul

 

When I can't instantly know what they are all about by simply looking at them.

 

I don't know man. I have a big rack and not very many people like me. I even posted it on the forums once and then felt like a total attention whore and deleted it.

 

Smart, sense of adventure, good looks.

 

Not gonna lie, looks. She has to be gorgeous for me to approach. Now to actually keep my attention long enough for me to actually want to get to know her she has to have a great outlook, nice personality and good energy.