what makes a guy attractive

So i was just thnking, why doe girls think a guy is hott. Is it personality, or being cute to begin with or good physical shape? just curious, thanx.

 

hmm.... maybe if you weren't so stupid they would like you more...

like all things that have to do with people, it all depends on the person (meaning the girl)

 

Money.

Tons of it.

 

Long hair. Large package. Trust fund.

 

Not if they're hip. I think chicks like dudes that are...

 

I think a guy has to have good listening skills among other things, that's important to women.

 

Size does matter!!!! Confidence, being themselves, knowing what he want's and like's along with having no problem telling you is hot.

 

CONFIDENCE!

This is soooo attractive.

 

I have compiled a new list of what would attract me to a new partner here it is:
intelect
broad shoulders
funny
soulful eyes
understanding
financially secure
has a healthy relationship with his family
has the ability to be anywhere in the world but chooses to be with me
loves dogs
healthy eater
does not eat pork or beef
college degree
home woner or ability to buy a home
good credit score
tall
in shape but a little chubby
strong
compasionate
spends a lot of time volunteering
has an interesting career
between the ages of 30 and 40
good cook and baker
reasonabley clean
has nicer things than me
makes more than me
has had between 3-6 sex partners so he is experienced but not a hoe
good kisser
only drinks occasionaly
smokes herb occasionaly
decisive
gives praise and complements frequently
faithful and loyal
adventurous in bed
likes to hike, kayak, snorkle, jog and swim but isn't fitness obsessed
healthy eater
good listener and good conversationalist
proud but not boastful or stubborn
classy
does not talk about distastful things like money...for once I would like a nice gift from a guy without him telling me how much it costs-totally ruins the gift
gives me space when I need it without being offended
reliable
knows how to work on cars
ambitous but puts his family and those close to him first

 

HAH you're bad!!!

 

Haha,

wish you had this list compiled a year and a half ago, I could've saved you some time. I just scored myself 20 out of 41 - no wonder why things didn't work out

 

lynsey, you want someone who's 30-40 years old but hasnt' had more than 6 sexual partners? good luck hon! Someone like that is gonna be pretty hard to find, unless they married young and just recently divorced/seperated


What do I want/find attractive?
Confidence
Compassion
Able to be there when I need him
Can both listen and make me laugh
Is at least a little nerdy
Has a spine/is able to make decisions on his own

 

Kindness

 

I checked off 33 or 34 of these items, depending on if you are counting "healthy eater" twice or not, as it was listed twice, Lynsey...



That is quite a list...

 

Yeah, but I'm soooooo good at it!:X

 

That's why you're married!!!!!!!!!! you are a catch. Opps I forgot to put single as a requirment(;

 

Cooloner: exactly. That's why kinky redhead said "trust fund"

That way, he's rich, but isn't spending all his time making the money, instead he's spending it all on her.

 

And what makes a women attractive? For starters they wouldn't have a list like that!!!

 

No way I would go near anyone nearly as picky as you! And you wonder why your single.

 

hehehehe....I thought it was a BIG list too!!!!