What is your "style" of masturbation? And how connected to self is it?

For men and women.
How do you most often do it, and what is your favorite way?
And by "connected to self" - I mean when you masturbate, are you simply pulling your pants down to gain access, close your eyes and fantasize...or do you often enjoy pleasuring your body without fantasizing? Getting turned on by your own body and enjoying the play, or your masturbation is really not about yourself but what you see/imagine.

Cheers.
I will write my own, but not in this post to avoid the "tldr".

 

Lately I sit on my couch with the laptop on my coffee table in the living room (condo). Lube and cockring on standy. Pull my pants down to expose my penis and balls. Assume the bate spread, lube my cock, and start stroking. Usually get lost in various types of porn or webcams. Enjoying the sensations my gripped hand is providing my hard penis. Get close to the point of no return. Start edging for a while. Experience mini orgasms as pre cum flows steadily out and is spread over my glans for extra nice lube. Sometimes get so close a little semen will leak or spurt out. Doesn't make good lube lol. I will stop from time to time and admire my throbbing dick. Like showing it off and stroking in cam with other masturbators. I am please and proud of it and the pleasure it provides me. When it's time to cum. My penis gets my full attention as I watch it erupt with semen and shoot thick white ropes on my belly and chest, sometimes further on a good day. Hope I answered satisfactory and not too long. Bate on guys and gals!

 

I’m usually quite connected and enjoying the sensations, although my mind can wander.

Usual way is naked, face down on my bed and grinding on my hand (I’m a pre-op trans guy, so no cock). That tends to work well for me. Sometimes I’ll play with my nipples or wear a butt plug while I’m doing it.

 

I usually do a quick jerk in bed, just reaching into my pajamas.

 

For me it depends on a couple of factors and the combination of said factors. The factors are if I’m really horny, alone, have time, and not necessarily connected to being alone: am in a place that it convenient. If I’m really horny, but don’t have much time, I’ll just go for it and be done in a couple of minutes. However, if I’m horny and alone, then I take time to play with myself, brushing my naked body and fingering my ass. If have time and alone, but not fully there in being horny, I’ll strip naked, and brush my body and finger my ass as I mentioned before. However, if I’m not fully there in the horny area and not alone, then I wait until a more convenient time.

Examples of times where I’ve been horny, not much time because I’m not completely alone are the times I’ve pulled down my pants in an office at work, sat on the desk and went at it. Kitchen at home with people in the other room is another.

 

While sometimes a quickie stroke is necessary, my style is a long slow edging session. I like to get completely naked and sit at my desk usually. I have Vaseline handy as it makes it a little slippery but still leaves some friction too. I am a visual person so often some porn to get going and then I like pictures of completely naked women. I get lost in the visuals and the sensation of physical excitement. Changing my stroke and grip, playing with my balls bringing myself close and then stopping. Denying the orgasm over and over. To me the build up is almost more exciting than the orgasm. The feeling of my hard throbbing dick is indescribable. When I finally do cum it is amazing. I just wish the orgasm could last longer. I'm getting turned on just from typing this.

 

Porn on, pants pulled down was my usual for sometime until I became bored with porn. IMO - most often porn is going to get old, or take you down paths that are not healthy for you...just my opinion.
Not that I never use porn now, just not very often. All fake anyways.
Now I usually get totally naked and lay on the bed and have a good go at myself. Sometimes camming which can be fun.
When I was younger, all the way through my mid 30's I had little to no interest in my own body sexually. Masturbating to either porn or eyes closed thinking about that one hot lady at work....or someone I met recently. As I got older I became more attracted to my own body. I don't know why. My guess is by the time you hit your 40's you have had intercourse 1,000's of times, and with the same person. So your attraction tends to go somewhere else.

 

Mmm yummy!!! So you ask how and what's my style of masturbation ???
I have many ways i enjoy pleasuring myself, for example last night i was alone at my house ,my father was at work and his shift started at 3p.m and ended at 12a.m so once he left i stripped and ripped off the little bit of clothes i had on and got buck fuckin naked !
Went into the living room where we have a smart T.V.. ....i loved it because i can acess the internet on it so i layed my SEXXXY naked ass down on my daddies new couch and turned on some very hot porn ,cut the volume up to 100 literally and began jerking my dick with my legs(feet,ankles) wrapped around my neck/head oooooohhhh it felt so good ! I thoroughly enjoy spreading my legs as wide as possible watching porn so that my huge 13 inch black realistic dildo can penetrate my tight ASSHOLE .. thats just one way


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Usually just pull my pjs down and close my eyes and fantasize about having sex with a cute guy.

 

I like both the idea of looking at myself, and fantasizing as well. When I watch porn and stroke my cock, my gaze alternates between the video and myself. I like to imagine that it's me pleasuring the woman/women in the video I watch, while at the same time admiring the hard, veiny rod in my hands. I hope that doesn't sound strange.

 

Not weird to me. I love the feeling of being rock hard and I like to look at my cock too.

 

I fantasize a certain amount, but there's definitely a lot of just experiencing the pleasure. Often during my most prolonged sessions (usually in my bed, naked, very slowly humping my sheet and holding myself right on the edge, very much the style Jude uses), I just lie there concentrating on how my penis feels. Same goes for stroking sessions in the shower or (less frequently) on the sofa. Over the past year I've experimented more with cum denial, partly because I love the feeling of horny sexual energy inside myself, without any particular fantasy in play.

 

It sounds just about right!