Does it control you? Do you love it or despise it? Or is it something you use to fill a void? Does drinking stop you from doing anything harder? Or are you completely in control, and alcohol is something you can manage?
I don't like it too often.....once or twice a year ina a safe setting is ok. I feel it like those snow globes that can shake things up in me or out of my psyche.
I occasionally use it to fill a void, occasionally use it socially. When I drink, more often than not I drink to get drunk and this can lead to excessive drinking. Drinking doesn't stop me from doing anything harder, accessibility does but alcohol can hold me over , when I'd prefer to have harder drugs. Really this only applies to ketamine and occasionally cocaine, most other drugs I do, I don't usually want on a whim and/or alcohol can't really accomplish what I seek from the drugs. I do occasionally use alcohol in lieu of pot, which I don't consider harder. I prefer pot for the most part and for awhile I had particular reasons as to why I was not using pot but I may start exploring pot again soon.
Well I am a social drinker really.....I never drink at home unless I am getting ready to go out and then I will stick my tunes on and have a couple of cans while I put my face on.....I just like pubs and the people...its a big part of the community and we need to protect em....Its just a shame that there are always some dildos who go out looking to cause trouble...and they spoil it for everyone and give booze a bad name.
its complicated. alcoholism runs in my family. I know what it can do to people, both short and long term. I can definitely see some alcoholic tendencies in myself so I am very careful never to go over that edge. I know I like to drink, probably more than the average bear, and I do get drunk a couple of times a month but don't let myself do it more than that. I have learned how to curb the binge drinking I did in my early twenties and have a beer and then stop so I do have a beer after work a few times a week but I try to carefully limit my consumption because I dont trust my genetics.
Any recommendations to curb the binge drinking? because I've curbed frequency but when I do drink, I usually still drink like I'm 21. It's like I get a couple beers or drinks down and then my brain goes "Oh yah this feeling again, do more"
My current relationship with alcohol is that I am done with it. In the past, when I party, I would usually mix alcohol with other drugs, and wouldn't feel the effects of alcohol as much. Since I've stopped using other drugs, I've only been drinking when I party, and I tell ya, I do not like the person I am when I am intoxicated. After three treacherous hangovers this week that consisted of me feeling worried about things I said or did while I was drunk the night before, I came to the conclusion that I do not like who I am when I get drunk, and I no longer wish to go down that road, nor do I want to ever feel that way again. Going forward, I will still attend parties and social functions, however I will not be getting drunk. I will bring along ice coffee or something to enjoy instead. I really feel positive about this change.
This is my situation, also. I've seen what alcoholism has done in my family, it's something that really scares me if I ever feel like I want to drink.
I'm fine when I have a drink or two. I enjoy having a drink or two. When I go out partying with my friends, however, and I end up having more than a drink or two, that is when I turn into a person that I do not like. So as of right now, what I need to do is marinate myself in the memory of who I am when I get drunk, and remember that I do not like or want to be that person.
I'm not really a fan of it but I don't hate it either. I've only had sips of certain alcohols and it's a bit too strong for my liking but who knows, that may change one day.
I don't know. I wouldn't say I have a problem but others probably would but if you have one drink a day many confine that as problematic so I must be off the rails some weeks. My relationship with it depends how I'm feeling, really. Alcohol causes me to gain weight rather quickly so if I'm feeling a touch bloated or having a fat day I won't drink. But I like relaxing with a beer in the bath. Or a horn full of mead watching the tv while my miss sips her wine beside me. Then on weekends I like to get plastered with friends. No every weekend. But I think nothing of it. And come Oktoberfest time. ........