What is your fondest memory of your Bi side

Mine would have to be when I was 20 yrs old, I grew up in the upper midwest around the Great Lakes. On a fishing trip to Lake Superior I met 2 men who was on a summers long sailing trip. Being into sailing myself I was intrigued to say the least. We hit it off straight away and they invited me to join them, with nothing holding me back I accepted. The boat was a 42 ft Hunter sailboat with all the comforts of home. When I told them I needed too run home to let my family know and to pack some things I would be back on the morrow. Arriving early we set sail for parts unknown, Lake Superior is quite the host for a water lover. After a light dinner it was time for my watch, I assumed the helm and making 5 knots life was good. At 10 PM I was told to drop the sea anchor and secure the sails nav lights turned on and come below. The lake was really calm that night, I secured the helm and went below. Upon entering the hold I see a bottle of Scotch on the table and 2 naked men stroking each others cocks.

Dressed in only a tank top and thin shorts they could see my cock growing with excitement , I knew they were gay but didn't even think about me being the 3rd player. They motioned me over and one of them rubbed me through my shorts, I couldn't resist reaching down to stroke their cocks. Now that they had me naked we all shared our oral desires and back in those days I could shoot cum a mile. As I was on my knees head between the legs of one I was jerking myself and blew my load which shot up onto his belly, He smiled at his partner and said yea we got a good one. Over the course of 3 months we played almost overnight and enjoyed the solitude of the lake.

 

My fondest memory took place about a year before the requested divorce with my first wife of 25 years. Being she had been neglecting her duties to sexually satisfy me for two years I turned to other men (a number of years earlier) for the much-needed oral sex I was being deprived of. Getting blowjobs from other men (in my mind) did not equate as "cheating" even though I was. It wasn't long before I was sucking cock myself and found out how much I enjoyed it and that I was really good at it, a natural born cocksucker and never knew it.

Anyway, I responded to a Craig's List ad posted by another orally deprived married man that had two photos of his cock attached that was the sexiest cock I've ever seen. One flaccid, and one fully erect. Flaccid it was about 6" with a gorgeous set of shaved balls. Fully erect it looked to be almost 10". I wanted it, I wanted to suck on that thing so bad. So, I respond with my photos (5" flaccid, low hanging balls & 8" fully erect) telling this guy that I would love to get to know him with the intention of sucking his big sexy cock.

Over the next few days, we emailed back and forth getting to know each other and telling each other how much we'd enjoy sucking each other's cocks. During these emails we found out we did have a lot of things in common, so we arranged an afternoon to get together and enjoy each other's company. So, I met him at his home while his wife was away at work. I'm greeted inside to the living room to sit while his TV had music videos playing. We chatted for about 10 minutes when I told him that I really want to suck you cock. He stood up and removed his pants and sat back down as I made my way between his legs to admire his cock with my face just inches away from it as I was caressing his thighs and gently blowing on his flaccid cock. I placed my tongue upon the head of his cock and slid it up his shaft and back down the side of it to then take his balls into my mouth and gently suck on them. He leaned back on the couch and gave out a sigh as I then took the head of his cock into my mouth and sucked on it. It was so soft, so smooth, and smelled so clean and sexy as I began taking more and more of his cock into my mouth and feeling it growing thicker on longer. I took the base of his cock into my right hand as I ran my tongue up and down his shaft and suck on the head of his growing cock. His moans were getting louder, and his cock was now fully erect as I began seriously suck his cock like it deserved to be sucked. I was taking his cock deeper and deeper into my mouth teasing my throat because what I wanted to provide this man more than anything was to deep throat his entire cock. I then pulled out a small cloth tape measure from my pocket and measured the length of his cock to see he was 9 1/2". OMG, I love sucking on very big cocks.

My eyes are watering, my nose is dripping as I pull off his cock to sniff up as he handed me a box of tissues to blow my nose. OK, now his cock is sloppy wet, and I proceed to keep sucking on his cock as he becomes more vocal saying "Yeah, suck that cock"..."Keep sucking it"..."Suck harder"...I did everything he asked and then I managed to get his cock past my gag reflex, and it slid into my throat as I held my face tightly against his belly and his hand was forcing the back of my head down tight. Breathing through my nose I held him there for about 30 seconds before slowly releasing his cock from my sloppy throat and gripping his cock with my mouth as he watched his entire cock come out of my mouth. He was very happy, told me that nobody has ever taken his entire cock down, so I proceed to do this 8-10 times repeatedly not just for his enjoyment but also for mine. I am amazed myself that I can deep throat this man's big cock and I'm doing it now quite easily. Then I start slapping his sexy cock against my tongue and cheeks because I'm in full cock sucker mode wanting to provide this man the ultimate oral experience which I did for the next hour and a half. Yes, I sucked on his cock for 90 minutes and then he arched his back and shouted out "I'm going to cum, be ready"...So, it's then I repeatedly deep throat his cock to get him over the edge and release his semen into my mouth which he did and was very vocal about it. He spurted 6-7 streams of thick cum into my mouth (his cock was raging hard throbbing and pumping) as I kept sucking his cock and swallowing his sperm. I'm in my glory at this point, I really wasn't sure how much longer I could keep sucking on his cock and was glad to hear him say he was about to cum. His cum was the best tasting cum I've enjoyed to date, and I'd swallowed many loads of cum before hooking up with him.

Now after cumming into my sucking mouth and swallowing every drop of his cum he began to go soft again but I kept milking his cock with my mouth at a very slow pace. He was breathing very heavy, as he laid back in the couch to all but melt. I came up from between his legs to sit beside him as he told me that he's never been sucked off like that, it was for him the best 90-minute blowjob he'd ever experienced, and his orgasm drained him completely. I was so proud of myself as I did say, had you not orgasmed when you did, I was afraid I would have to tell you I can no longer keep going and have to stroke you off. I wanted him to cum in my mouth and finish the job orally rather than stroke him off. We sat on the couch for about 20 minutes talking and then he said, OK, it's my turn to return the favor.

He provided the very same enthusiasm on my cock that I provided him. He sucked me for 40 minutes to ultimately swallow my load of cum as I was just as vocal towards him as he was with me. I love telling someone "Yeah, suck that cock"..."Suck it harder"..."Take it all, deep throat that cock". He did, and he did so repeatedly as I did for him.

That started a relationship that is still alive today that has been taking place for 13 years now. We love sucking each other's cocks and do so 2-3 times a week. For 13 years now we have been sucking each other off an average of 10 times a month which equates to providing each other with at least 1,560 blow jobs and neither of us have any plans to stop doing so anytime in the near future. We simply love sucking each other's cocks.

 

Meeting this man, and sharing what he and I have shared over the years is why I am the bisexual man that I am. Both of our wives approve of our relationship and are actually turned on by the fact that he and I are orally active with each other. Our wives are unable to suck our cocks as often as we suck each other's so it's really a win-win for all four of us.

 

I know exactly what you are talking about. I too have a very private very discreet guy whom I often service almost daily, my wife of 39 yrs knows and approves and sometimes plays along. He lives next door to me so getting together is easy. His wife passed on a few years back and he is content with our arrangement. My wife is home officed and with him being next door he comes over during the day and rides her. He is 67 yrs old we are just hitting 60 ourselves but we are all comfortable pleasing each other. Sometimes early in the morning he will come over and we will take care of our morning wood and I leave for work and he will stay and play with my wife. Let me say this, she said to me that she really loves when I drain his balls early in the morning as it makes him last a long time. Earlier this week I came home to see his hairy ass fucking her and he never missed a beat, she was squirming in the bed as he rammed his meaty cock balls deep, I got hard as a rock and joined in and as I on perfect timing he came in her at the exact moment I filled her mouth, all she could do was smile.

 

I met my best friend in Florida. Within a few months of meeting, we starting experimenting. In the years since, we had some amazing times together. Our intimacy was intense and I can honestly say he was the first guy I ever actually developed feelings for. Growing up in the Midwest, I couldn't openly explore my sexuality with another guy for fear of being outed. However, after moving to Florida and meeting him, I finally was able to explore so much about myself.

Sadly, that all ended about 6 or so years ago. He wrote me out of his life with no explanation. It hurts, but I'm thankful for what we did share in our time together.

 

I definitely feel your pain. I've been there too. That was 4 years ago for me and it still hurts when I reminisce about it.

 

Definately the times I spent with Mike, an older guy who's passion was sucking cocks. Many a time I stood there as he devoured my cock for what felt like a long time, then pumping long jets of come into his mouth.

 

Probably the day I my long-time suck bud of 13 years met. We got naked and 69 sucked each other for almost two hours. Neither one of us wanted to stop sucking as we both came in each other's mouths twice that afternoon. He and I continue to suck each other weekly with spousal approval.

 

My college buddy. 4 years of sucking n swallowing. Sadly 40 yrs ago.

 

My first time was during college. I was out drinking and I was shooting the shit with the bartender and a stranger at the bar how women suck as I just went through a breakup. And when alone the stranger I was sitting next to says. He’s done with women. Sick of the hassle and told me he gets blowjobs from guys. Which I didn’t know how to reply at the time. Except that’s cool you can do that. I haven’t given up yet on them. The nite went on and many drinks and other conversations. And when we both were leaving he asks if I needed a cigarette. Sure. So we are out making small talk next to my vehicle and he whips out his cock. Big and hard and says what do you think. Couldn’t believe it’s size. I’m only about 5. His was big and thick and hard as nails. I just stared in disbelief. I could barely hold my cigarette without shaking. He said don’t worry nobody will find out. I grabbed his cock and jerked him off while taking my last puff. And went down on him in the parking lot. Working on his cock like a champ. Until I felt the pumping and than him cum. Filling my mouth. Needless to say. I blew him the rest of the summer every weekend and sometimes during the week at his apartment where he met me at the door naked and ready. By the end of the summer I could deep throat him balls deep.

 

Lucky you!

 

Hugs and kisses for you.

 

One of my fondest memories was sharing the experience with my wife for the first time. She missed my first bi experience, but wasn't going to miss this one. She knew all about my first experience and how he sucked my cock. I was jerking him and he came when I came in his mouth. When she invited him for dinner, the next week, we all knew what was going to happen. He knew that she wanted to see me suck his cock and there we no surprises. I sucked him and he came on my face, which my wife absolutely loved seeing. When I came, he wanted to take my large ejaculation on his face. My wife was having her own personal sex show. but she didn't have any dollars.
I guess the best day was the day I found out, she was into it.

 

As we stripped down in his bedroom, I was in awe of his sexy flaccid cock hanging a good six inches as he commented that my five-inch flaccid cock looked delicious. After turning down the covers we went right into the 69-position to admire each other's cocks gently licking them as they began to grow. He was flinging and stroking mine as he sucked my balls, so I began doing the same thing to his. We both got instantly hard as I asked him how big his cock was, he replied close to 10". He got up to retrieve a tape measure from his dresser to measure each other. His was 9 1/2" and mine measured 8" as we replied to each other, this is going to be a fun afternoon. It was the first time I was able to repeatedly deep throat a cock this size over and over again, I just couldn't stop as he was doing the same to mine. We were having the most enjoyable time together as we lost track of the time when I looked up at the clock and said, damn, we've been sucking each other for two hours. We both had places to be, so we dressed, exchanged numbers and have been sucking each other on average 10 times a month ever since.

 

There was nothing like the first time. The excitement. The taboo thoughts. The guilt and shame and the thoughts “I’m really doing this”. All cumming to an explosive end once you’ve completed the task at hand or shall I say mouth.

 

My fondest memory of the gay side of my bisexuality was when, after 21 years of only cocksucking in anonymous gay sex venues (because that's all I felt like doing when I was actually naked with a real man, as opposed to my fantasies which included everything), I fell in lust with my first male ass in person, in a bathhouse in Berlin in 2013. I don't know where it came from, but when I saw this young twink's ass, I was instantly overcome with desire like I've never felt before, for a man or woman. I ravage that ass like you've never seen, tonguefucking his hole for more than an hour, before finally giving in to his crying pleas to fuck him.

But even before I finally fucked him, I was teasing his hole with my naked cockhead. In between rimming the deep interior of his asshole with my tongue, I rubbed my cock shaft up and down his ass crack, including making sure my cockhead brushed across his rosebud. But eventually I became bolder and bolder, and began rubbing my cockhead against the opening of his asshole. I cannot begin to describe the out of this world pleasure I was feeling doing that. I don't know if it was the feeling of my bare skin of the head of my cock against the bare skin if his asshole lips, or what it was, but it was like shocks of ecstasy shooting through my body. I even began becoming more and more bold, inserting more and more of the tip of my cockhead, my bare cockhead, into his opening. It took every ounce of willpower not to push it in all the way, and make love to this beautiful young man. In fact, he also kept trying to push his asshole all the way down onto my cock, getting me inside of him all the way, but I kept resisting. I was just too scared of disease to fuck him bareback, even though every molecule of my body wanted to. I kept telling him, "Only with a condom."

Finally I couldn't take his desperation, or my own, any further, finally got my cock wrapped, and finally inserted my bi penis into another man's ass. This is another experience that words can't do justice. The joy I felt, the relief I felt, the bliss I felt, the Truth I felt, from finally having my cock deep inside another man, was overwhelming. As tears of joy welled in my eyes, I fucked him for all I was worth. I was one with his body. I fucked him like crazy!

It was the greatest orgasm of my life, and the single greatest sexual experience of my life. The whole experience touched something deep inside of me, and released it. I was finally in touch with the gay side of myself like never before, and accepted it like never before. I was overjoyed in the discovery. For me, it was sexual intercourse with a man that helped me understand who I was. I rejoiced in my bisexuality like never before. From that day forward I stopped all anonymous gay sexual encounters, and only began getting together with other guys in each other's homes, for a closer connection. And with every man I got naked with, I had strong anal feelings. And ever since, I've drawn closer and closer to the guys I've been with, and closer and closer to my gay side, embracing it, rejoicing in it. In fact, I even a few months ago actually fell for a guy for the first time: I had romantic feelings for another man. He was unfortunately a straight friend, but I realized that I could feel everything with a man that I've ever felt with women.

Shortly after my disappointment from my feelings with my straight friend going unrequited, I ended up back in a bathhouse for the first time since 2013. I ended up having wonderful sex with a bearded and hairy man for the first time, having up until now only being attracted to smooth guys--dare I say, smooth like women's bodies are. But for some reason I felt this strong close connection with this man, I just saw past all the hair. It was the second greatest sexual experience of my life. Ever since then I'm just simply attracted to men no matter the characteristics.

In fact, I no longer have any interest in sex or love with a woman. I now consider myself fully gay, and I've never been happier. Just tonight I met for the first time with a gay social group of men. Socializing with all these clothed gay men was yet again another powerful experience. I've never felt so comfortable, and so loving being with people like me. Finally, at 60, my life can begin.

 

I found your whole post to be very inspiring and encouraging, thanks for sharing it.

 

Thank you.

 

I am so glad that our desires match up in this symbiotic kind of way as the top and bottom respectively. My gosh, it's giving that to another man, a bottom like you, that gives me great joy. Presently, the most natural, homeostatic state for me is when my cock is deep inside another man's ass. Though I know I will never stop loving that, I also want to experience your bottom joy and have another man give me his soul through his penis, by burying his cock in my ass and truly fucking me good someday soon. My ultimate fantasy is to be in a mutually versatile relationship with a man, breeding each other's asses all the time.