Ok so theres this girl that I truly think that I am in love with. I likethis girl so much, I can't get her out of my head But I don't know if she likes me back. She flirts, she hangs out with me, she follows me during parties, but when it comes to crunch time she always seems to back out. I am out to a party the other day she comes down the stairs to the party late and walks straight over to me and says hello. Ten minutes later she walks over with a friend because I had a friend with me. We hang out for 30 miniutes and play a little pool talk and flirt and all that good stuff. Then shes gone for 10 minutes and returns for another thirty just to talk and hang out and have fun and all that good stuff. Everyimte she comes back she seems to hyper and fun. Now its the end of the night, after a few more coming and goings...The end of the night we dont say a word to each other for an hour. And she doesnt eevn say good bye to me she just leaves talking on her cell phone. Now its not the first time this happened. Everytime we hang out its awesome the entire time we are together until the last hour or half hour. Then she always leaves suddenly or gets on her cell phone and like ignoors me. Usually leaves without saying bye. Now what is with this? Is she nervous is she teasing me...What the hell does it mean when you talk and have fun all night, but at the end of the night completely ignoor that person! I dont understand it, maybe someone here will....
It sounds like she "sets her stall out", but has this lovely traditional value of wanting you to do the courting - in the old-fashioned meaning of the word. Everything she does, even leaving whilst busy doing something, seems to say that she wants you to notice her, and that she doesn't want to peep at you noticing her! Is she as sweet as I make her sound? Maybe she IS nervous, and maybe she thinks your nervousness is also sweet.. For what it's worth (hate that saying!), I think the two of you have a wonderful time ahead of you.. But you have to make that move. Just let your feelings out slowly, let her get used to them.. And let us know how it goes
ok i kinda left a little thing out... before this party we hung out about 5 times...and its always been the last hour of her ignooring me with aboslutely no reason to do so this pary that i was talknga bout she had kind of a reason to ignoor me...i was with her and her friend and my friend standing and talking...and as the 2 girls were talking to each other i said its hot as hell down here you guys wanna go outside...and it kinda seemed as if they were ignooring me or they didnt hear me...so i said again aright im going outside anybody wanna come? and then i just walked out nobody followed... i mean i guess thats sort of a rejection...and then thats when she completely ignorred me for the night... .....
Tell her you dig her, wait for reaction. If it's bad, then it's not too late to pick up the pieces and move on. If it's good, then ask her out. What do you have to lose? You don't have her yet, so if she says no, you're not anywhere worse off than you are worrying about her now. It's easier said than done, believe me, I know, but once you get up the courage to do it, rejection or not, you'll feel so much better.
If she treats you differently when there's an audience (like during a party) than she treats you when there's not an audience, or when there's less of one (like at the end of the party) then she's using you for show.
I agree whole-heartedly. Who knows what she's thinking when she appears to be ignoring you? Maybe she's waiting for you to make a move, maybe she only likes you in a platonic way, maybe it doesn't really mean anything and thats just her personality. Go find out! And keep us posted... good luck, champ :H.
