What is the truth about looking at breasts/cleavage?

What's the truth about what women think about guys looking at their breasts or cleavage.

Their is no simple answers or generalizations for anything, I assume. So I am just asking for the truth and the whole truth.

I've have never known for certain if women will call me a "creep" if I look at their breasts/cleavage. (even for a tiny quick hopefully undetected glimpse-which is what I do)

I've always been afraid of that (getting caught) and I am trying to access the degree to which those fears are founded.

Does my question make sense? I hope that it does.


This question is directed mainly toward women who will give me a friendly helpful answers.

 

I honestly don't even notice. So look away, if I did notice, I'd be pretty flattered. Unless you were my dad or brother...or father-in-law. That'd just be weird.

 

Okay. Very good.


Which brings me to a question don't guys "stare" at your breasts. Or is that not really a common problem for you?

And another question how would you define "staring" does that mean looking for more than 5 seconds or 3 seconds straight or what?

I did look at your breasts in your profile I might have even stared. lol.

 

I'm sure they probably do, I rock the cleavage all summer, I just am not very observant usually. I keep to myself and try not to pay attention to people and their reactions to my presence, I'm kind of shy and don't like attention in real life (you would never guess that by my online persona), so I just kind of put up a mental block. My mom used to tell me about how uncomfortable my dad would get when guys were giving me the eye when we went shopping when I was younger, but I never noticed at all. I've only noticed ONCE when someone was checking me out, and that's just because he stopped dead in his tracks and did this ridiculous body scan with his whole head moving from top to bottom and then right back up again. But that was really weird and I've never had something that obvious happen since.

 

A guy in my dorm room did that once to a young gal. He was a 44 year old porn star. I am not kidding. I've never seen that before in my life and I wandered how common it actually was. Incredible.


The more women answer this question the more helpful it is.

 

More opinions please. Thank you.

 

Very important point there .... see my post in your other thread.

The whole truth is there is no on single truth. Just your personal one, and it may or may not collide with the truth of another person.

Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. A woman might show cleavage but, at the same time, might not want you to openly stare at her boobs.

If you look at a woman you might want to try and make sure she understands that it's a sign of appreciation .... do not stare with your tongue hanging out.

 

An appreciative glance is usually flattering, especially when we go through the trouble of making sure the "girls" look good. When a glance turns into creepy leering (more than a few seconds), it can be a little offensive depending on the situation.

 

if they were a low cut top - fair game

they are asking for it.

 

it brings us men back to childhood

 

I have big boobs. When any person stares at my boobs and talks to them instead of my face I get somewhat irritated

If you look at them too long I feel like you ought to make it worth my while

 

I stare. I try to not do it but I can't help it. If I see a lovely pair to tata's or lovely cleavage, I'm drawn like a magnet to look. I apologize, in advance, if I have offended any of you lovely ladies.

 

I like boobs.

I just prefer them on women.

 

That irritates me too. If you are talking to me, then look at my face. Really gets to me.

 

THE QUESTION IS WHY DONT FEMALES SAY ANYTHING IF YOUR THAT irritated ???

 

I think you will find that many women do say something.

 

Thank you. Don't just tell me what you dislike. Ie. Staring.


Tell me what you find acceptable. The whole truth.

 

This is a good answer. It says not just what you dislike but what you do like or find acceptable.

 

Okay, more answers from woman about what they like AND what they dislike about men looking at their breasts/cleavage would be great. Thank you.

 

Some women I think don't understand that just because we appreciate a physical part of them doesn't mean that we think that they are objects. To me at least they are symbols of femininity.