What is specific actions makes your partner's or your orgasm really special?

During the sex act we all aim to enjoy the orgasmic bliss as the final reward. Please tell yours or your partners actions at the point of orgasm makes the experience very memorable. All of your special ways will be helpful for everyone to explore more,

 

It's not anything at the point of orgasm itself but what is done to my body and mind leading up to it. The preparation, anticipation, foreplay, initial touch, the kiss, the stroke, the comments. Everything that my senses feel before I orgasm is what makes or breaks the orgasm. There are things that can be done just before I go off such as a massage of my prostate right before if she is doing a hand job. I had a fuck buddy who wanted to know when I was ready to pop. I would tell her and she would pull my head close to suck my lower lip into her mouth. Those things increased the intensity of my orgasm but had to be timed perfectly. Also having eye to eye contact as I cum is nice but that doesn't make it any better or worse. Its just nice to see her reaction to my semen entering her body. For me it's what is done sometimes long before the orgasm that makes it special. But then at my age every orgasm is special.

 

That is a good summary. I love how you enjoy your climax. It is special. When my wife is about to climax she signals me and I stop all movements of my penis and wait for to go into orgasm. At that instant I can feel her vagina contract on my cock and it really gives me extra pleasure. She also grips my neck tightly an offers her lips to be kissed deeply. Once all her orgasmic contractions are over she asks me to release my load by which time I am almost ready. I will start thrusting fast and at that time she reaches my balls and squeeze them gently until I stop all moaning.

 

I also think it is something similar.
I think what makes an orgasm so special is very much about desire. The desire begins much earlier, it can be something mental at first, if there is a wait it increases and, anticipating what will happen next, it makes it grow a lot. Sometimes it is enough to hear the voice on the phone of the person we want to set everything in motion.
Sometimes lovers want each other so much that when they meet, it's like foreplay has taken place in their minds before, and when they finally get to meet, they want to put their bodies together right away. Perhaps this is why at the beginning of a relationship, when two people know each other, orgasms are often particularly intense and remain etched in the mind, even if perhaps the couple will discover over time, mutual knowledge and experience, how to give each other mutual pleasure in a more elaborate way.
But when you live together, and this aspect of waiting is a little less important, a lot of the game takes place in the way you manage to warm the mood and get to the foreplay.
I believe that each couple has their own rituals and language to do this. For example, we play a lot with our hands, trying to intertwine our fingers, we caress and kiss each other body as if we wanted to expose and discover our bodies every time. Let's avoid the erogenous zones at first until we can't do without them anymore. We love looking at our naked bodies, and seeing them reflected in a mirror too. Individually, each of us has our flaws. But when I see our naked bodies next to each other or as we bond during penetration, I can't think of anything more erotic about the two of us. She says the two of us complement each other and I think this is also true from a physical point of view. This also helps to make the orgasm experience memorable.
Then there are things we do in the imminence of orgasm but I don't know how voluntary and controllable they are.
My girlfriend get vocal and she becomes nervous and aggressive, sometimes she scratches my back and she toddles and tries to embrace me with her legs. Often then, she makes a grimace on her pretty face, she then tilts her head back exposing her neck and gasps as if she is out of breath. When she gets to that point I know she is having orgasm, I feel the rhythmic contractions of her vagina tightly gripping my penis. It is as if she held me inside her and she milks me. The only action I do is push it in as far as possible and hold it down to the bottom. Then I enjoy my woman who is coming. I enjoy the expression on her face, her moans, the thrills of her body and, if the position allows it, I hug her to me to feel everything better.
At that point, if I have managed to hold out this far, I ejaculate deep inside her and then stay inside her to prolong this feeling of making her mine and own her completely.

 

If I receive, for my partner to do it the right way and don't stop until I am done. done orgasming and feeling good, which is past the end of my ejaculation.
If she plays with it to drain it completely when my cock is done squirting it out on its own power.
When my partner loves that I continue when I ejaculate and orgasm during sex. Same when she is having her orgasm and she wants more.
I am especially happy if a woman has sensitive breasts and my playing with them contributes to her pleasures, physical and otherwise.

 

It's all very situational or contextual but I particularly love visual stimulation - being on my knees in front of her such that I can see as much of her as possible sprawled out before me open to me for my pleasure. Watching my penis plunge inside of her again and again heightens everything. Also when she knows I'm close and shouts "FILL ME!" gives me a huge boost then when I oblige "OH YEAH I CAN FEEL IT!" dayum I love it.

 

I agree seeing the cock plunges in an out into a tight pussy is very satisfying. Though most of the time we tend to have sex in the dark. Women are sometimes reluctant to have sex with lights on.

 

I love my wife's actions when she has an orgasm: throwing her head back, groaning or even screaming a bit, yelling "fuck me harder," fucking me while I fuck her. It goes on until she is exhausted.

 

We liked playing a little game, where I would give her oral. And I would make her wait. I loved eating her pussy and sucking her clit. One time we even did mild bondage, where she was spread, with ankles and wrists tied. And I would make her beg me to slip my dick, or her dildo in her.

 

some well timed dirty talk can really get me going. I'm a pretty mild mannered guy but there is some kind of dominance that takes over me a lot during sex. wife loves to be submissive in the sack so we both like the same type of thing. she likes when I say things like "give it to daddy" or more lewd things like that. I like when she begs for it.
and a random thing I like if I'm face her with her on her back and me kneeling between her legs/standing at the edge of the bed is when she runs her nails or digs her fingertips into my front hip bone area on either side of my dick while we're having sex. gets me going just thinking about it

 

I find with my man (and have with others as well) that showing and telling them how much I like them shooting it inside me, or how much I like it in my mouth really makes them feel special and enjoy the moment. I've had some great drunken conversations with guy friends about what they like / don't like and a pretty common theme is that if a girl is disgusted by their cum it's a bit of a downer. Saying that I've heard guys say that once they shoot they don't care too much, but suspect they're not really connected.

 

That is really sexy of you. When you appreciate your man's actions it will make his pleasure at another level. Enjoy sex life.

 

If I receive, it’s for my partner to continue through my orgasm, doing it the right way.
Someone who takes pleasure in doing it makes the experience special.
If the woman is on top during sex, what makes it special is for her to take me deepest inside her

except for one woman, I found that if I don’t stop that’s what makes it the best for her.
I am a pleaser and I love making someone feel good and wanted, I found that to go a long way in her mind, and of course what I do with my body parts.

 

Well, for almost ten minutes before her orgasm I do not break physical contact at all. Every second hugging tightly, kissing her, telling her how much I love her, etc. She explained she needs that and is crazy about being held and loved while being stimulated.

Note that this is always without penetration, I always rub her genitals for her, she enjoys that insanely much.

Also sucking her nipples for her during this which she adores.

For me she sometimes plays with my scrotum and gently touch and tug on my testicled which I intensely enjoy and which makes my orgasm very much stronger.

 

An aggressive, persistent, and well-placed tongue always makes it special for me. Especially if he is determined to hear me scream.

 

Seeing his reaction does it for me. Or the way they grab me roughly when they cum, and of course their moans. Guys moans are underrated.

Oh yea, also just the satisfaction of knowing I made them cum lol

 

All what you have said is 100% accurate and I feel the same with my wife. I enjoy so much when she orgasms and grips my penis and milks the last drop.

 

The mental aspect and foreplay is awesome. We do so many different things that makes each one special and intense. Sometimes she uses a dildo while I run my fingernails up and down her body. Sometimes it's nipple pinching while she plays. Other times I run the Hitachi all over her body, lightly on her erect nipples and also right up her thighs but never touch her genital area (endless teasing). And yet other times I'll lick her clit to near orgasm, then withdraw and lightly blow on her clit to make it cold, then plant my whole mouth on it to suck and lick and warm it back up.

And sometimes it's the "new and different". The other night I did a first for us both. After giving her multiple gushing g-spot orgasms with her on her back, I turned her over on her side at the edge of the bed, slowly worked my entire fist into her pussy, then slid my cock into her ass and worked both over as long and hard as we both could take it until I lost myself and exploded in her ass. Never done that before! Today she said she thinks she has recovered and is ready for more action!