What is prostate massage really like?

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by rheeglenn, Dec 2, 2018.

  1. rheeglenn

    rheeglenn Visitor

    I've posted here earlier about what to expect from first-time anal sex. My wife and I haven't done it yet, but talks are making slow and steady progress. Whenever I attempt (with her consent, of course) to approach her anus, whether with my penis or my finger while she's in a position ready to receive, she tenses up and closes it off. My finger gets further in than my penis does, as my penis has never been able to even make contact with her anus yet.

    So while we are getting used to each other that way, I want her to give me a prostate massage. I've read about a lot of people here getting amazing orgasms from prostate stimulation. If my wife and I can achieve that, I think she may become more excited about anal stimulation for herself. I have had her finger in my anus a few times now, but we haven't found "the spot" yet.

    Leading to my questions.
    1) Who here enjoys prostate stimulation?
    2) Do you get enjoyable orgasms from it?
    3) How exactly should my wife go about it? Method of insertion, angle of insertion, how deep does she need to go, etc.?
    4) How long (number of minutes, perhaps) does it generally take to achieve orgasm?
    5) Can orgasm be achieved this way without me manually stimulating myself at the same time? I would prefer not to play with myself during a prostate massage, because I think the concept is way more alluring knowing that she could get me to climax through just the anal play.
    6) Any other considerations I haven't thought of? Or share some of your experiences, please.

    Thanks, all!
     
  2. Seanjohn

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    While everyone is different, my best orgasms come from a deep ass fucking then a little before I get off pull it out and slowly stick it back in but not very deep and move in and out or keep it in but slow down and with short deep strokes. Either way gives me the most intense and biggest loads
     
  3. Seanjohn

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    Also, with years of taking things anally some being excessively large I've never achieved a hands free orgasm but I've also never went hands free long enough. But I'm really considering it the next time the wife joins in
     
  4. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    yeah that's the way - if he has a upward curved cock then on your back with him fucking you can be incredible

    Simon :)
     
  5. evercuriousone

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    I think I think it depends from person to person. Ive experienced the full range of sensations from meh to eye rolling, moaning ecstasy that feels as close to my wite’s experience as I’ll ever get. But it is completely variable and frustratingly unreliable. I have orgasmed from both finger massage and strap on but the stars have to line up just right or nothing happens. Others in different forums seem to have a more consistent experience and some have achieved reliable super orgasms from prostate stimulation. Ultimately, you must find what works for you. Might be a finger, a dildo, an aneros product, Njoy pure wand...the list goes on. I got the Njoy pure wand based on what many others said but it has done very little for me thus far. Everyone’s body is different and what makes one person’s toes curl may have no effect on you. You will have to experiment with different things until you find what works for you. If you’re going to start with a strap on, go conservative in size and you can go up from there. There are many products from which to choose and plenty of folks offering advice and product reviews.
     
  6. Idle_Billy

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    Ah, I presume it's a strapon he's referring to.
     
  7. Seanjohn

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    Dildos, strap on,dicks. What ever is fucking you in the ass
     
  8. John gibson

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    Getting a prostate masssge will give you the best orgasm you've ever had. As for your wife clenching uo when you go to pick your finger or dick in try using yoir tounge first.
     
  9. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    who the hell would want a inanimate strap-on when you can have a real live cock with a driver that also feels sensations!

    simon :)
     
  10. Seanjohn

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    Cocks are ok to. I've had big and small years ago but I like my dicks to have real tits attached to it.lol
     
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  11. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    ah yeah, then has to ve a shemale or a atrap-on!

    simon :)
     
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  12. Idle_Billy

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    Who? Probably all straight men who like it in the ass? Perhaps it's not something you'd get.
     
  13. Si69

    Si69 Senior Member Lifetime Supporter

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    ah, yes ..... I suppose ..... I wonder what proportion of straight guys like having a dildo in their bum, or being pegged.

    I consider myself bi, perhaps on the gay end of bi, but would never have wanted to be pegged by my wife, but love being fucked by guys......

    yes, it's wonderful, so many desires, pleasures - we are all different sexually .....long live the differences and hope for full acceptance and tolerance in the world.

    simon :)
     
  14. Goander

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    1) Who here enjoys prostate stimulation? Definitely me !
    2) Do you get enjoyable orgasms from it? Mind blowing ~!
    3) How exactly should my wife go about it? Method of insertion, angle of insertion, how deep does she need to go, etc.? Best to start solo with a massager so you can experiment. Usually about 2" to 3" in and up.
    4) How long (number of minutes, perhaps) does it generally take to achieve orgasm? 15-30
    5) Can orgasm be achieved this way without me manually stimulating myself at the same time? I would prefer not to play with myself during a prostate massage, because I think the concept is way more alluring knowing that she could get me to climax through just the anal play. Absolutely
    6) Any other considerations I haven't thought of? Or share some of your experiences, please. Visit Aneros.com and read the forums. Very helpful !
     
  15. Seanjohn

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    If I got turned on by a woman and took her home and found out she had a dick, I would tear it slam up
     

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