i like guys that are vegetarians, have a beard (not necesaraly big), who like animals, who are ok with girls with a strong will, but who have a strong will themselves. turn off= mummys boy, overeaters, dominant types, and those who want to feed you stuff: food ("you are too skinny"), booze (to make you drunk so you can accept doing some anal maybe?), drugz (yeah, because many guys, and girls too, are empty inside and need to make other people high so they can have some fun, just use you, and then forget you.) I like guys who have, in some part of their life, done the hermit thing....
let's see... vegetarian - no beard - every winter like animals - yes ok with strong chicks - sure why not strong myself - roar mummys boy - yes overeater - no give girls food - um, i'd probably offer, but you can refuse give girls booze - again, i'll offer but you could always say no give girls drugz - no smoke? done the hermit thing - created the archetype for it but you're a lot older than me and i could never stop eating me some AMINALSSS. thank you please try again
I have a friend who is by nature very thin. I suspect she might even have an overactive thyroid or something, but people are VERY mean to her about it. She can't help it, and she has to put in an effort to gain weight. She HATES it when boys try to get her to eat more because she's too skinny. It has nothing to do with the amount of food she eats anyway - she eats like a normal human and overeating, like anyone else, makes her sick to her stomach, so why should she be force-fed just because her body doesn't conform? You can tell she isn't malnourished if you look at her face and skin. She's extremely self-conscious about her body weight, so don't think it's only fat people who feel bad about their appearance. Usually with overweight people, people at least try to skirt the issue or at least have some tact about it, but with my friend, people show no tact or politeness whatsoever - it's like they feel it's their business to comment on her weight and tell her she's too skinny. That SUCKS. Also I've had a guy reject me because I'm not a vegetarian. Sorry charlie, but dammit I'm going to eat meat. I have food allergies and a health condition that make it very difficult and expensive, not to mention completely NOT WORTH IT. Basically if I lived a vegetarian lifestyle, I would be overweight, hormonal and bitchy. Believe me, I've tried it, I did what you're supposed to do and it didn't work for me. Also being allergic to soy doesn't help. I do try to mostly purchase my meat locally at the health food store so I know the farm it comes from and know it's not a factory farm. I don't believe eating animals is wrong. I knew a dipshit girl in high school who got upset at the notion of starving people in 3rd world countries raising guinea pigs to use for food. She was like, "why don't they just eat soy?" I kind of went off on her about how not everyone in the world can follow her elitist, middle-American ideals because they simply aren't practical to everyone in the world. It is way easier for someone kind of wealthy to be a healthy vegetarian than it is for someone in abject poverty. I do believe we should raise animals that are used for food in a humane manner, allowing them to live primarily outside, feeding them organic feed and letting them graze in fields. Instead most people get their meat commercially from factory farms without even giving it a second thought. That does suck, and I don't agree with it. However, I don't think everyone's body is equipped for vegetarianism, and it IS kind of an elitist lifestyle if you think about it. I still get pissed at that girl for suggesting that starving people in 3rd world countries, "just eat soy." Blargh! This was one who was thick enough to try and feed her CAT a vegetarian diet (poor kitty). So yeah, if a potential suitor rejects me on the basis that I eat meat after hearing my personal reasons, fuck'em, because they're obviously not smart enough to understand that not everyone can be like them. Sorry this rant got a bit off-topic didn't it? lol
What I like in a guy: -Eccentric and grounded at the same time -Whimsical and fun -Imaginative and open-minded -Sexually creative -Fun-loving and spontaneous while being able to be sensible as well -Not a drug addict or alcoholic (been there, done that, never again) -Not a complete mama's boy but does love/respect his mom/family -Eats healthfully and wants the same for me - a little junk food is OK as a treat here and there but let's not over-do it. -Understands that my food allergies are a real thing and it's not "just in my head." -Takes care of himself - exercise, eating right, hygiene, all that jazz. -Likes to read - a definite must -A thinking man, please. That's a tall order to fill, aparently. Maybe I'll stay single forever waiting for that guy, who knows? If there's one thing I've learned, I'd rather stay single than settle!
what i personaly like: small beards eyes full of sense prominent cheekbones a loving smile piercings long hair i dislike: military man rich sonnies immature guys heavy addicts
i like kindness, honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, spontenuity,i could give a fuck if he's fat, a meat eater or anything that trivial. i however kind of like a pothead we seem more laid back and relaxed and my bf is very energentic and adventurous.weed is'nt a violent natured drug so i'm glad i found someone like me. i agreee though mommas boys irritate me only because in my opinion they can never make a descision
