What happens when your top lover does not cum?

You've been making love for a good period of time, say 30 minutes. Your gay or bi top man moans and sighs and tells you how good your ass makes him feel. Then he just kind of runs out of energy and still erect he pulls out of you. He did not cum.
How does this make you, a bottom man, feel? Is it like you failed because there was no orgasm? Do you talk about it with your top man and try to learn why he did not cum?

 

My wife knows I can take ages if I've been drinking. It's not her I think it's the drink holding me back. When she gets tired of being pounded she will boot me off, maybe suck me off or try run one out with a handjob but she doesn't like it if I'm too quick and doesn't like it if I can go on for ages.

Maybe sometimes a top might be a bit run down and can't get off even if they want to.

 

Thanks for the input.

 

There are times it will not fire. No fault, it just holds back at times.

 

I can go for an eternity sometimes and have to just admit defeat. My hubby says he's ok with it, that it's more about me being inside him that matters more. So long as he's ok with it then so am I

 

If he doesn't cum, he doesn't. I know why a guy won't cum and it's not always his fault or mine although, if he's fucking me and doesn't cum, I don't see how that's my fault - but I know guys who have lost their shit blaming themselves for something that may not have been their fault... or anyone's fault. Shit and damnation: I've had sex with men and women and couldn't cum and it wasn't them, sometimes it was me - over-sensitized or, yeah, too tired to cum - and sometimes it just didn't happen and I've had to explain that, look, it's not your fault and stop acting like I didn't enjoy the sex we had because if I didn't, I would have stopped a long time ago.

Sometimes, nothing happens and after experiencing this "too many times" with guys, I learned to not expect him to cum, even if I'm sucking him.