What does your no-sex wife suggest you do?

After reading about so many married guys who have wives that are Done With Sex for themselves I didn't see many that had wives who had input as to what a horny husband should do for sexual satisfaction. Does she think that jerking off will satisfy your needs? No Way! What does your wife suggest you do?

 

That's the truth and BTW I'm jealous too.

 

I can't say my wife is "no-sex" but knows my drive is far higher than hers. She's glad I have my "suck bud" to play with a couple times a week.

 

Mine makes no suggestions, but tries to make me feel guilty for how it(my bisexuality) makes her feel. In a similar way, she makes no forbids or ultimatums or "or elses", so.....YOLO I go forward.

 

My wife used to think a guy could just whip it out, jerk off and be satisfied. My friends wife suggested we just go downstairs and take care of each other. She wasn't joking. My wife was ok with that.

 

It gets to the point where they don't care anymore. They don't want to know about it, unless they are into it.Both wives were into it, in the beginning . My wife still likes to watch and chime in, his wife has lost interest..

 

There is no doubt my wife is losing the interest she had some years ago. It's cool. She says, "You guys just do what you enjoy doing, if I want something I'll let you know". His wife is still very interested as she enjoys being fucked in the ass as much as I do. Her husband and I will get double blowjobs. Her and him on me, then her and I on him before he fucks us both yet still wants me to fuck her in that sexy ass of hers. My wife has no interest in anal so I can fuck his wife's ass pretty much anytime she asks for it.

 

My wife offers no suggestions. We have talked about it until I am blue in the face to no avail. She simply thinks that since she has lost interest for the most part that Im just willing to not have sex. I have given up on her being interested and I wont beg. It’s not fun if she isn’t into it. So I find someone who is.

 

The first wife said, "go pull yourself' in a derogatory tone. My present wife is much more caring and compassionate. A psychology counselor saw me at the height o depression in my late 40's and suggested I get a woman on the side, and yes, she was serious. My wife was sympathetic but not really impressed at the advice although a few times she let me try it, crying as I went, as she revealed later. That was hard, unlike my dick which was a flop, stage fright, droop, the whole disaster. When I suggested I visit an older guy who sucked cocks she was all for it, so I did. That went on for a couple of blissful years and I told her what we did until he died suddenly.
He taught me to suck his and a friend's and I liked it. That was 11 years ago.

 

My wife lost her desire for sex…wait she never had a desire for it. She claims she feels bad which I believe but she makes no suggestions. She always seems to offer that glimmer of hope that things may change but after 4 years of noting and 15 years before that of “limited” I’d say I’m a 42 year old that most likely will never have sex again.

 

She suggested and approved I find a fuck buddy. Since I have been with many a woman, never a man, and have had some very satisfying sex. Would I entertain a relationship with a suck buddy? I don't know because there are plenty of available women who are more than happy to take care of my needs.

 

YOLO and life is too short. Depriving or suppressing our desires out of any sense of guilt, duty, religious vows, societal norms can lead to stress, anxiety, depression and possibly mental illness. Which is better? being the "good husband" throwing your dick and desires on the shelf out of "blablabla" and being internally miserable, possibly having that negativity change who you are to everyone? or go for what you need, be happy?

 

From guys I have known, a lot of wives think that he should just live with it. She has no interest in sex, and feels he should just accept it. She doesn't want him having sex with anyone else, but thinks it's fine to force a sexless life upon him.
Some of these guys, will turn to another male for sexual release. They don't want to hook up with a female, as that is a minefield full of potential problems. Very few women will just have casual sex with a man. Sooner or later, they want more.
Like a commitment that he will leave his wife, etc. And if they don't get want they want, they can get really nasty. Such as informing the guys wife to screw his life up.

 

After all that time, it's not going to happen.