i want to do something special for my girlfriend involving our sex life. i was thinking about the whole candles everywhere really romantic type thing. neither of us is really kinky. any suggestions?
Yeah take the candles and have her spill some of the hot wax on you. Yippie I love to do that. haha. Oh right.. not kinky um... Just be sure not to burn down the house. (no seriously I've heard this happen before). So don't go too crazy. Flowers are good and a dinner at home is nice too. Like make some nice home cooked food (or order out to a really nice place if you can't) that way you spend the entire night with her and only her. Makes it really intimate I think.
Acupressure massage including deep foot massage with healthful oils and herbs followed my a bath together; include candles, incense, peaceful music; and later some special tea with a bucket of fresh raspberries and strawberries (well cleaned in vinegar then in water); then dream under the stars together. .
Romantic sounds like a good theme. Set the mood lighting, eat some nice food, enjoy nice wine and good company. Then just chill out and relax. Maybe have a candlelit bath together or enjoy a loved up movie. The rest of the night should just flow from there...
Comb her hair.The rest may follow - it does in my perverse world.Except one time I offered to trim her fringe and that resulted in tragedy.
A candlelit bath has always been my fantasy...and rose petals. If you can't get rose petals, any flower that doesn't reek will do. Sprinkle them everywhere, make a path to the bed from wherever you choose. To me, it's the cheesy movie stuff that gets me going. Cook something nice for dinner, use little notes to direct her from the front door to somewhere you are, basically notecards with arrows, then one that says "Turn around" and by the time she turns around, be holding a gift of sorts. I may be a complete cornball, but that would melt me into a puddle.
