What Do You Prefer To Do To Seduce Someone?

When you are feeling horny & want to make love to your partner, what do you prefer to do first:

A: Touch them in certain places to see if they are in the mood

B: Dress in sexy type clothing

C: Ask if they want to have sex or take your chances

D: Other ways or stages you try to seduce them in

 

I don't do one specific thing with my partner! It just happens all the time, because that is the kind of relationship we have. We both want the same things with each other and are close in every aspect of our life together which is maybe why we have so much sex.

 

So you don't ask her for sex, just initiate & hope she's in the right mood for it?

 

No i don't ask for it! As long is she is not sick she is in the mood for it.

 

Sometimes some women (my wife) come up with numerous (or very poor reasons) excuses that they dont want to have sex - ie: would rather do housework that needs done & then you either feel unwanted or just able be manipulated by them & don't care one way or another about your needs & their pleasures you could give them in return.

 

None. I'm the bull; not the snake charmer, see

 

i prefer to do nothing, but that never seems to work out.

 

I'm naturally submissive, but liberally minded.
As I get to know women I gradually let this fact be known. In this way, if they also happen to be of a liberated nature then it eases the way for them to make the first move, for me to be seduced by them.

I'm certainly not the slim, sporty type, plus I'm well into my middle aged years, of what might be described as having a 'homely' nature, but even though I don't fully understand why, it seems to have appealed to quite a few different women - not that I'm complaining. After all, why should it be expected that it's the man that makes the first move all the time? This is the 21st Century, when all said & done.

 

because the man wants to have sex, and it won't happen otherwise.

 

That must be quite liberating, PineMan. You're the man.

I don't know if I'm submissive. I don't think so. It's easy for me to make a move when the girl is cool, and looks at me with a straight face.

Then again, it's almost impossible to shake off my inertia when the chick has that stupid, head-turned-to-the-side grin or when they make a show of how disinterested they are. Ew.

 

I usually initiate sex by grabbing her hair and putting her hand on my hard cock. Thats when she knows i mean business.

But I also like when the girl takes initiation , its hot seeing a girl step out of her comfort zone.

 

I totally agree but it depends if our partners are the dominant types or not.
If not, they won't make the 1st move & if you don't, nothing happens.
Sex shouldn't be just one sided all the time.

 

If I want to have sex, I just hold the guy's dick if we're laying in bed together and start playing with and rubbing on his nutsack. Then if he seems responsive, I go down on him. At that point he usually flips me over on my back and gets on top. Let the games begin!

 

Rapist!

 

I just say "Hi, I'm not nzmale". Usually works.

 

You don't know what I would do to a female to make her want me to try & give her the best sex ever - even if I'm not that young anymore but young enough at heart. And I would do what I feel like doing to her that she least expects or deserves to experience without mentioning it first & hope she's left feeling completely drained of energy.

Sounds like a NZ verses Aussie sex poll / debate may be cumminig up soon lol

 

All I need to do is look at my wife and she is ready to play. She is a very hot woman.

 

Only cos its so friggin Hot at the moment.

Works in Winter, "Hi, I'm nzmale", immediately they put on a sheepskin coat, then look confused if you just stand there

 

does she have to see you looking at her or is your look so powerful it can penetrate the back of her head? do you have to look at her directly, or do pictures of her work? it could be fun to look at a picture of her while she is out and about so she will suddenly start stripping off her clothes at walmart.

 

I do not seduce. Rather, I get seduced.

 

On my last experience we started cuddling, while standing up, at which point my erection soon became extremely evident as it was pressing against her hips. It was at this point that she took the lead & led me to the bedroom where we quickly stripped & were soon down to full penetration, at her own direction.