My wife and I around a year ago started using a strap on. This has now led to me thinking and wanting nothing but the real thing. I’m confused on what to do. Do I ask for permission or try it without in the hope it numbs my feelings for wanting it so much?
Now that you've had a fake dick up there, once you get the real thing you'll be blown away. Go for it.
The sine qua non of any relationship is trust, and that's based upon integrity. There's nothing as corrosive to a relationship as dishonesty, secretiveness, and sneaking about. Different couples have different notions regarding fidelity and monogamy; I have no idea what the parameters are of yours...but I bet that you do. From what little you've written, your wife sounds open-minded, and unless she's deeply stupid your desires in this regard must have crossed her mind at least once or twice. I'd suggest talking to her about them.
Thankyou for your reply’s. She is always willing to experiment but so far this has just involved us and I am 99% sure she wouldn’t be up for the idea. I do drop comments during sex and certain acts which she tends to brush over. For me it’s just about the sex and I have no further interest in anything else and am happy with the relationship I have with her.
After sex with your wife and the two of you are cuddling, laying in the glow, etc... "The strap on feels wonderful...I wonder what a real cock would feel like?" .....and wait on her response. Take it from there...
"Could we please share a guy together sometime?" Might that work? In my case it worked for a first and only time(where she joined me sucking off a guy).
Or...Sometime when shes going down on you, "you look like you're having fun, can we share one together?"
Thank you fingers crossed it goes well and I can live out the fantasy in the future. From past conversations a third person has been always dismissed. But then I never thought we would do half the stuff we do now.
Other option, enjoy how far she already goes, dont chance the other stuff other than to perhaps "enjoy too much" when shes pounding your ass or even getting close to it. Be her bottom.
I enjoy it loads just can’t help feeling what the real thing would be like. I can also imagine she has a slight idea I would like to try it already but maybe she doesn’t like to think of it.
I am sorry to say this but there is no comparison between taking a dildo up your ass and the real thing. I live for the moment that my girlfriend shoves her seven and a half inch cock in my ass. Feeling her fucking me and then filling me with her cum is a life altering experience. Be careful where you go with this.
Communication is everything in a relationship so I suggest you discuss your desires with her before just going forward without her knowledge. What is the worst that can happen? She say's no so you continue to enjoy her pegging you. On the other hand the conversation could lead right into what you desire. Take me for example. I spent 20 years of my first marriage mutually sucking other sex deprived married men. We divorced after 25 years for reasons other than this. Anyway, I meet a fantastic woman and tell her of my past with other men. She was curious to hear all about it and so I spilled everything to her and she was turned on by it. She thought it was sexy to be with a man who enjoys sucking cock as much as she does. I still had contact with my suck buddy while dating her so she wanted to see us in action which led to her joining me to suck him off. After a number of threesomes together she wanted to see him fuck me in the ass being that she'd been pegging me for several months up to that point. OMG, it was an unbelievable feeling to have his cock inside me, when he unloaded his cum inside me I was in a different universe. She helped guide him inside me and saw how much I enjoyed it. He and I still suck each other off weekly and about once a month we'll have a threesome so I can be on top of my wife (69) while he fucks me in the ass. It's so worth talking it over with her.
Taking 7.5 inches might open his eyes. Talking this through with the Mrs. Statiscally I wonder how often this comes to a mutual agreement resulting in the proposed activity happening. Either he gets ok go out and take it up the ass get it out of your system or sure let's I make that happen. Statistically I've never had a positive response to an ffm threesome so no point asking if I can. Take it up the ass with her blessing or share a cock with her. It happens for some. I think for them they are already partnered with another open minded person or some one that also shares a secret desire . Maybe you get some so willing to please the partner they are willing to try. How many wives would be the first to bring it to light with serious intentions? Are men more likely to be the instigator of acting out on a fantasy.
Most will say don't cheat. I think if I could NSA try something to test the water and satisfy a curiosity or desire maybe I would. Maybe you experience it, get over it or have to start making the right choices. If it's the physical experience and physical pleasure of that intamacy you want it's a hard call but if you hook up discretely and learn what it's like to enjoy a cock you might be happy it's done and leave it at that. Physical pleasure
That should have been tough choices. Maybe if you do want more it's make the tough choices and come clean, keep cheating seperate or stop and return to your current life. But if you really need to test the water it's your life.
I can honestly say that A dildo feels great and if you have a good one it's even better. My wife is a size queen she's 5'3 123lbs and tight as it gets but she regularly takes 10X5 and loves it as thick as she can get it and has had 12X4. I also like thick cocks and regularly take the same 10X5. But... a real cock even an average sized one feels amazing. so warm and hard yet soft it feels amazing being stretched open slowly and deep fucked by a real cock try it you will be shocked how good it feels if your into dick.
I am 100% a pussy man if I had to pick one or the other to spend life on a deserted island with it would be pussy for sure. But... getting a big black cock in my ass feels fucking amazing " yes the rumors are true most black guys are great fucks" I have never had an orgasm like when I am getting fucked slow and deep the fatter his cock is the better. I love love love to be stretched open and filled with cum. Go for it its just sex if you hate it at least you were honest with yourself and you gave it a shot. For the first few times at least, it is going to hurt considerably if he is hung. I just grin and bear it, after about 5-10 min it wont hurt much if at all depending how turned on you are. For me my orgasms went from good or average to way over the top omce I got used to taking a big dick. I highly recommend that you give it a shot.
