which are you more SEXUALLY attracted to? men or women? I kno i'm gay, but still, there's this girl i like, but not sexually at all. she has a wonderful personality, and she's pretty shut up about her feelings, and i feel like going out with her i could really understand her and help her, if you know what i mean. so im very attracted to men, and not only sexually. but im also attracted to women, but not physical or sexually. you just need to find out where you are, and as you get older you should find out for yourself
its ok to be who you want to be. If you stay in the closet, you will only get stuffed behind the dusty rags.
I am a little uneasy at giving advice on sexuality to someone so young but there will be so much other shit to face up to and deal with in the years to come. So based only on my own experience I would urge you to accept your sexuality and enjoy it. I was about your age when I realised that not only was I gay but that I wasn't going to grow out of it and since that time I have enjoyed a wonderful and fruitful life.
The thing to remember is, it really doesn't matter who you love, it's HOW you love. I consider myself homosexual (not a homosexual, I don't do labels), but I've been sexually attracted to women as well. Why do you want a girlfriend? Is it to prove you're straight? Or do you need a companion? Being bisexual is nothing to be ashamed of. You could even consider yourself just "open-minded."
Be who you are.Don't make an issue out of it just be yourself.Stay open minded and don't try to figure it all out.Trust and begin accepting your sexuality.Be you!
