What do gay guys think of bisexuality

I been on a dating app and say I'm straight cause I feel most women are turned off by that Im bi. I been texting this one guy who's gay and he asked me if I'm straight. I jus put on my profile that I'm looking for a friend first and see where it goes from there. It's pretty difficult trying to meet people being bisexual. I feel it would be easier being with a woman but I'm more interested In men.

Are most gay guys okay with being with bi guys?

 

The general consensus is, a bi guy just wants sex and go, some are just sucker, some just success, then may anal activities, but it's like an easy way to get off and no involvement. I basically agree, as a bi man, this view is somewhat accurate.

A gay guy like a women,in most cases, is overall looking for more than just sex, so they have a problem with bi guys, but don't with straight men, and I don't have insight to why exactly.

Where I disagree with the generalities about bi men, is I see bisexuality as a spectrum, and situation, for all and definitely myself. I get enough sex with my gf, but there are times I just want to suck a guy off, sometimes just get fucked, but I would really like to find a guy I could meet regularly and make love to him, wake up in the morning next to him, then make him breakfast, but still live my straight life and be with my gf forever.

 

I hear ya. That would be awesome. At least today it's probably more possible since people are more accepting than they were years ago. Like for me I do hide my sexuality but I do feel more open if I'm asked about it.

Luckily this guy I'm texting is ok with it.

 

I had a couple of gay men I was secretly enjoying mutual oral with years back that married men really turned them on. Maybe it's seeing a "married man" sucking his cock is what does it, I don't know but I never did give in to receiving anal back then but having a regular man now fucking me I wish I would have been more open to anal back then. The one gay man told me what turned him on about it was if I would be more satisfied with having sex with him or my wife. Mind you I was only sucking cock so I replied "It may be because my wife doesn't have a cock and I'm really enjoying sucking on yours and your cum tastes really good" I then said I think I could do this semi-regularly if you're interested but unwilling to leave my wife because the two of you provide two totally different things in the bed. He also knew through our conversations that I was sexually deprived by my wife at the times which led me to hooking up with him for oral satisfaction.

25 years later I've accepted my bi-sexuality as has my 2nd wife. We have a boyfriend whom I met and had been involved with prior to meeting her. She's very supportive and get's really turned on watching him and I sucking each others cocks before I 69 (top) with her while he fucks my ass. I feel I'm lucky to have a wife that allows me to express and enjoy my desires for cock from time to time.

 

Yes are are very lucky

 

That's great.

 

As a pan sexual man, I've had about a dozen sensual encounters with men, and at least three of them were with exclusively gay men. In each situation with a gay man, they were aware that I was bi or pan, and had no problem with it. I had heard from a long time ago that some gay men believed that bi men were actually gay men who are simply in denial about being gay, but I never had a gay male lover who expressed that belief to me.

A few of my female lovers, however, did have a problem with men who were sexually active along the whole gender spectrum, especially when I was younger. The older female lovers I've encountered have generally been much more open to pan-sexuality.

For me, the key to having a rich and varied sex life has been to tune into a lover, no matter what their gender orientation might be, and pay very close attention to their verbal and non-verbal feedback in the moment. Each person responds to intimacy in their own unique way. Discovering and respecting that uniqueness is a huge turn-on.

 

I would like to meet someone like you!

 

I've found my best lovers by doing the activities I love to do, doing my best to be a considerate person, and limiting my sexual encounters to people who demonstrate that they are doing their best to be a considerate person.

 

Yep, I'm on that path, so someday...

 

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Your last paragraph was a turn-on. What are you doing later tonight?
But seriously this is a consideration for me. I want to be the best I can to read others and in turn to act accordingly, and I would hope whoever is with me would try the same. The other person matters as an individual and is unique.
I'm also concerned about women accepting me as a bisexual. I haven't been successful at all lately and need more reasons for rejection like I need a hole in the head. And I've heard even a lot of bisexual women will look down on bisexual men as potential mates. It seems the reason is mostly a matter of sexual hygiene but still.
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