What counts as sleeping with someone?

I was reading an old forum on this and was wondering if you did something gay with someone at what point would most people consider sleeping with someone

I don't really care of tallying my score so to speck but i want to know how can i commanl term like sleeping with someone (referance to opposite sex) be used on homo relations

 

You are sounding like one of our ex presidents when he was asking what is the meaning of the word is. :X

Does it really matter? I think that everyone has their own interpretation on this to a certain extent. If I'm understanding correctly you are wondering if other forms of sexual contact than intercourse is considered sleeping with someone. "Sleeping with someone" is a euphinism to begin with. My definition, for the record, would mean that you are having intercourse. I don't use it talking about other forms of sex. They have their own euphinisms. All are ways of talking about doing something in more polite terms. Suppose I'm girtalking with my friend & I want to communicate to her that the cute guy I was out with last night & I did the nasty but we were in a crowded resteraunt or walking in the hall @ work. If I told her that we slept together it isn't going to prick up as many ears as if I even used the term I just did before. Certainly not as much as if I said we f____ed.

Now what I really think is that you are concerned about doing something with someone of your same gender. That is a whole different question. I'm sure that you already know that the folks especially on this section of Hip Forums are going to tell you that there is nothing wrong with that.
At any rate. Be happy with who you are & enjoy the consentual relationships you have with people.

 

I agree with snowdancer, it's whatever interpretation you give to the word "sleeping with a guy" or "having a gay experience"...I'd say it's anything where you have a contact with a same sex partner that results in both of you being sexually stimulated (and orgasming or not)...How's that for a definition ?

So whether it's mutual jackoff, kissing, oral sex or fucking, however "far" you went and felt satisfied with is sleeping with the same sex. I'm thinking that way because if making out is more important than oral for a particular person then I don't see how a blow job would be graduating to a higher level of intimacy.

 

there are many different definitions but personally i count oral sex as sleeping with someone. all the other stuff i refer to as "doing stuff" or "fooling around"... not that i use those terms much as i'm not really one to kiss and tell